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laid off... I hate it..

meandthebeast
meandthebeast
We have been real slow at work and my son, that I work for laid me off for a week. I go back Tuesday.. My fiance hasnt talked to me for the whole week and even went out Friday night somewhere until 2am.. He doesnt try to help me through my sadness and pain and I am sure when he gets home today he is going to ask me to go home..

I feel like my whole world is crashing in.. Im not good alone and I have so many things here to move with me that it would take months to get it into several storages.. Im in a bad place and to tell ya the truth, I could use some hugs.. Thanks alot to all my friends.. You are the only thing that keeps me going. Peace to you all and many hugs.. Y'Vonne the dancing bear..
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh hon {{{{{{{huge hugs}}}}}}}} I am sorry to hear about this....

....if it were me I would be gone before the fiance ever got home....

Much love and peace coming your way, you have LOTS here who care about you!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
you are doing good by getting your feelings out. try and think positive that he will not ask you to go home. some people have odd ways of dealing with stress. (((((((((((hugs))))))))))
deleted_user
deleted_user
Why is he your fiance'? Where was the love?
deleted_user
deleted_user
hugs my friend..sorry that all of this is happening to you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
hugs and loads of love my sweet friend xxx
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am so sorry to hear about what is going on with you,.,..and although I am not on your friends list,..you seem like such a sweeetheart,..I truly hope everything works out for you and that your sadness and pain are short lived,...
((((((((HUGS)))))))
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sure hope it all gets better and works out! Hugs and peace to you as well!
meandthebeast
meandthebeast
thanks guys.. Im in a real bad place.. Luckily I have a home to go to. I love Al, I just hate that he can so easily just get rid of me and doesnt understand depression/ Bipolar..

Im in such a big black hole right now.. Im sure I will pull out of it as I always do but IM so sad.. So very sad....
deleted_user
deleted_user
Its natural to be in a bad place with everything that has happened to you in the past several months. I wish he would try to understand you and your illness- or at least try to. You are a wonderful person and deserve some TLC, Lord knows you give it all the time on these boards! I love you my friend, hang in there.
meandthebeast
meandthebeast
Im so fucking sad.. I dont want to be in this deep dark hole.. Im so sad..
deleted_user
deleted_user
Man, I wish I could fix it all for you! One thing for sure, you have so many people here who care about you! Try to take today by the horns and worry about tomorrow then. That sounds so corny! But you know what i mean, I'm thinking and praying for you. TIGHT HUG! Deb
chelle37
chelle37
I'm so sorry you're dealing with all this. It doesn't seem that he's very accepting of you, while you seem to be willing to accept him. I hope the sadness is short lived and things work out soon.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You know I already sent you a message sweetheart and I want you to understand you can use the number anytime....I don't want you to sink, if you need to grab hold and we will pull you up, ok hon??? {{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}} & love
deleted_user
deleted_user
I feel you, Hon!! Many hugs!! Hang real tough! We have the same problems here, and I have had to get creative in dealing with it.

I hate what is happening to our economy.

You are not alone!
mystie
mystie
I'm sorry about your week lay off.

I'm really sorry about your fiance not being supportive. I can relate to that all too well.

Things are not well with my fiance and myself due to my depression and anxiety either. Some men don't seem to be able to handle how to support us emotionally like we can them.
I hope things work out okay for you.