Sorry to say, but he was not worth your time. You are better than that.! Take a deep breath and start over. At least he left you with a beautiful gift. Take it from someone who could never have a child, this is amazing news! You do not need a man to define you, or make you happy. Take some time to get through the hurt and then get ready for the arrival of your child. I'm so sorry you are hurting this way. Big Hugs!!

*bear hug* If there was a way to mentally punch people I would gladly do it for you and give him a good brick to the back of the head. You should never have cut off your friends for a guy, that's red flag number one. If a person doesn't like your friends they better have a good reason or they arn't worth your time to start with. Second, I doubt he's gonna apologize since he just wanted someone to be his lighting rod and take all of his bad mouthing and hurt that he probably felt when his ex dumped him. I'm sorry you have to deal with all of this pain along with having a little one on the way and I know I'm gonna get hate mail for this but whether you have the baby or not is entirely up to you. Make sure you have someone to help you with the child and that you have steady income for the two of you before you set your heart on having it. However if you feel you want to have the baby but put them up for adoption thats fine. Thousands of women go through these situations where they are told they are loved one moment but the next they are abandoned and for no reason while they either have kids or are pregnant. All you can do now is try to get back with your friends, don't worry I'm sure they will take you back and help you through this or if you have any family you trust then of course go to them. If you need to talk I'd be more than happy to.

Aww…I’m so sorry you’re hurting. I know it’s terrible to know you’ve been taken advantage of, and I believe you’re better off without this person. I pray that God will comfort you and give you His peace and strength during this time. **Hugs**

You have to pull up your straps and start making some serious decisions about your life now. What he has done is horrible, but also very common. I don't know whether to despise these men or feel sorry for them cause they are so freaking pathetic they can only think about themselves.

I am sorry you are going trough this. Take your time, can not imagine how hard it must be for you. You have to work on a new life. If you need to talk, DS is here. I will send you a friend request.Write if u need, I will be glad to help. Hugs.

I feel so bad for you, you don't deserve to be treated that way! I know I can sit here and preach about not getting an abortion or saying some mean things, but I'm going to leave that up to you. The best thing you can do for yourself is distance yourself from that pig, do what you can, try to make amends with your friends or find new ones, if it's possible get help with either a person you trust or a doctor. You are not alone, you deserve so much better! *Loving Hugs

Thank you guys for all the love and hugs and advice, I really needed that, I feel a little better, but I found out its twins so I'm just like, now what's next, I'm totally done with him!

My friend was in the same situation , you have to be strong now for you and your baby , I hope you can find someone who loves and respect you because you deserve it . God bless you . Here you have a friend !