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Just when I thought 2013 will be a new refreshing year, since i will be finishing up my last novel and continue my studies; as well as i celebrated new years eve by myself :'( (this is how lame i am)
My mum phone called me this morning checking on me, then she brought up about me marrying someone this year (i am 19) i said i was not going out with anybody cuz i dont feel such a value and i am raised in such a bad environment,
my mum became mad at me and threatened me by saying that if i didnt find myself someone to marry by the end of April she will arrange a marriage for me! I dont want to marry at all!!!
what can i do now, omg i really hate my life now!
My mum phone called me this morning checking on me, then she brought up about me marrying someone this year (i am 19) i said i was not going out with anybody cuz i dont feel such a value and i am raised in such a bad environment,
my mum became mad at me and threatened me by saying that if i didnt find myself someone to marry by the end of April she will arrange a marriage for me! I dont want to marry at all!!!
what can i do now, omg i really hate my life now!
Her threat was an empty one. You can not be forced into marriage. Vows must be sincere and freely taken. I am a wedding officiant (and clergy) and I would refuse to perform the ceremony if I believed either party was not fully and freely committed.
Are you living independently or with her? Either way, my advice is to leave, move and have no further contact with her. Toxic relationships never improve. Cut her out of your life like a cancer - and live happily.
I know who is she planning to make me marry, she will make me her best friend's daughter, i feel like vanishing from the world right now..everyone on Facebook found out i am getting married this year and i have to smile to show that it was my choice
On Facebook, post "I'm not getting married, that's just a bad joke mom is playing on me"
Please forgive this American vulgarism: Grow half a gonad and stand up and do what is right.
Think of the difference between plucking a thorn from your foot or pulling out a big rusty nail. Both hurt, but the thorn hurts less and heals faster. Hurt her honestly, not with a lie.
You know the "marriage" would be a sham, a lie, so why even consider it?
People can and do get away from their parents, you don't have to obey them any longer. And the poor girl they are thinking of marrying you to - surely she knows you aren't in love with her.
Be honest with her and everyone else. It's the best thing you can do.