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Women control sex

Rman
Rman
I believe that women have the control about whether sex will happen or not. Most men...not all, but most men are willing to do it at anytime, if not all the time. I have often wondered whether or not women use this "power" to get what they want from a man. This is by no means a woman bashing thread, but rather an observation based on my own experience with women. I believe that women control sex...
deleted_user
deleted_user
ohhhhhh whoops i was referring to R and just joking because he said sorry. i guess i better keep my 2 sense to myself
deleted_user
deleted_user
I dont know what that means.
deleted_user
deleted_user
you confuse me.....and i still haven't came up with a nickname for you....hmmmm
deleted_user
deleted_user
i guess that is what my ex did. he couldn't get enough.
he needed to find someone that he could please.
Rman
Rman
what he means to say is that you shouldn't keep your 2 cents to yourself...
this isn't the place where you should keep your 2 cents to yourself...plus, nobody was referring to your comment, so provide your 4 cents...
deleted_user
deleted_user
since you insist on calling me KID AND SPECIAL K, I have decided.. You are technically part of my sorority (Kappa Delta) but since I currently do not like you, your name is J-theta (we don't like theta's)
deleted_user
deleted_user
When women are taught that their value is as objects they will use sex as a tool. When women are made to believe they have equal value they won't. They will feel free enough to express their sexuality for it's own sake, and will use healthier ways to ask for the other things they want and need.
deleted_user
deleted_user
"Eh, gonna disagree because I've been the one who sways when the sex supposedly got boring. Truth is, I was just looking for the next jolt. It goes beyond making excuses to pursue another. Because as manipulating creatures, we will alter our presence to justify even the most cruel things. "

was what I didnt understand.
Rman
Rman
I get that that comment is saying that sometimes sex for the thrill is chosen, over sex with the partner...
deleted_user
deleted_user
if we do/did....you are NOT invited
deleted_user
deleted_user
Beaner you're killin' me! LMFAO!! (Excuse me while I go purge....)
deleted_user
deleted_user
you are not funny....it is because you are mexican and you can not get a trial
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am commenting w/o reading any of the responses...

That's the biggest load of F'ing CRAP I have heard in ages!!!!!

I have been married to dysfunctional alcoholics and all of them controlled the sex!!!!
My last husband manipulated me with sex through out our entire marriage!
If he was hurt, angry, in a bad mood whatever, he used sex to control me or to get his way. It was the most hurtful and sick thing of all!
ICK!!!!

I think that women controlling sex is a myth and women certainly do not have the corner on that market!

*mumbling away*
deleted_user
deleted_user
i will get you a pink, purple, orange, indigo, rainbow or what ever else i feel like getting you! and you will wear it ok and do not ever say thetas are better!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
bahahahahahah i guess you are speaking for yourself