Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I was born.
I grew up in a stable family.
I went to school.
I met my first love as a teenager.
She broke my heart.
I got into drugs and alcohol to mask the pain.
I moved to Florida after high school.
I got involved with bad people.
I almost died.
I broke free of the chains, came back to my family and went to college.
I graduated, got a job and moved into my own apartment.
I met my wife.
We got married.
We had kids.
The marriage went to shit.
She told me she was not in love with me anymore.
I found DS.
Now...?
That about sums up my life. How about your timeline?
I grew up in a stable family.
I went to school.
I met my first love as a teenager.
She broke my heart.
I got into drugs and alcohol to mask the pain.
I moved to Florida after high school.
I got involved with bad people.
I almost died.
I broke free of the chains, came back to my family and went to college.
I graduated, got a job and moved into my own apartment.
I met my wife.
We got married.
We had kids.
The marriage went to shit.
She told me she was not in love with me anymore.
I found DS.
Now...?
That about sums up my life. How about your timeline?
-Moved to IL when I was a year old
-Moved back to WI
-Had a rough childhood, had no friends
-Highschool was not much better but made one true friend who I still have till this day
-Started college.
-Finally started to get accepted by my peers
-Met the love of my life at 23
-Graduated college
-Had shitty customer service jobs all through high school and college
-Boyfriend broke up with me at 24.
-Got back together a short time later
-Boyfriend broke up with me again at 25, close to my 26th birthday
-Have tried to stay away from him
-Lost a good friend due to the breakup, she was bitter that we "forgot about her". She said really nasty stuff about us
-Still have shitty job
-Trying to find myself again
-Joined DS
-?????
I was abandoned.
The she-wolf found me and raised me as her own.
I snared myself a she-devil.
I married the she-devil.
We spawned a child.
The she-devil cheated.
I "forgave" the she-devil.
We spawned three more children.
The she-devil did it again.
The she-devil ripped out my heart and chewed on it.
I left the she-devil and took my kids with me.
Okay, that's only partially true. I wasn't raised by wolves. :-)
I was born in Kansas.
I grew up in a stable family with two parents who, after 41 yrs of marriage are still in love.
I went to good schools and graduated with a BA degree.
I ran cross country and track.
I had my heart broken a couple of times and broke a heart.
I fell in love with the person I thought was the love of my life.
I married her.
We had four amazing, beautiful children.
We shared a lot of great memories, had a lot of ups and downs and bought a house. We moved a few times in between it all.
She hurt me. I thought I had forgiven her and that she wouldn't do it again.
She started cheating again. I knew it, chose to ignore it. thought things would work out because I was too scared to stand up to her.
She fell in love with someone else.
I decided, after a few horrible months, to finally stand up for myself and leave her. Filed for divorce.
I took the girls and moved to a new home.
I divorced.
I found a new job that I love going to every day (almost every day anyway).
I fell in love with someone who treats me much better than my ex-wife ever did.
The rest...is still unwritten. (apologies to Natasha Betingfield, or whoever sings that song).
FOUND OUT MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN CHEATING WITH THE SAME WOMEN SINCE LAST NOVEMBER.
CAN'T MOVE OUT UNTIL THE HOUSE SELLS.
HE WON'T MOVE OUT.
JUST PRAYING THE HOUSE WILL SELL SOON BEFORE I GO INSANE.
ANITA
i'm not sure my life can be summed up, my childhood was really chaotic and a mess. but i'll try......
-1981 born in Pennsylvania
-dad left mom
-moved to Indonesia to be with dad
-dad left mom again
-moved back to the US
-somehow mom had another kid w/ dad
-moved back to Indonesia
-1988 mom gave birth to my youngest bro
-dad brought women over to the house while mom was in the hospital half dead, fighting for her life
-moved back to the US
-dad came over and took my older bro away
-moved back to Indonesia to get older bro
-found out upon arrival, older bro had been left in a house abandoned by dad
-mom tried to make marriage work, but dad refuses to live with us
-1996 ran out of the country (Indo) due to riots, violence and civil war, but older bro got left behind (due to dad taking his passport)
-1997 missionaries rescue my older bro
-2000 I graduate HS and leave for USMC bootcamp 6 days later
-2001 9/11 happens and i'm called up to go to the Pentagon for clean up
-started getting sick
-2004 injured back while serving active duty
-2005 medically discharged
-move to Hawaii
-2006 met my ex and fell in love
-2008 awarded SSDI
-2009 starting putting up with mental & emotional abuse from ex
-March 2010 ex moves out and we are DONE! he can take all his nasty attitude and shove it!
note: ex has been suicidal on and off but i really don't give a shit at this point
Born in Brooklyn to single mom
Mom remarries to great new dad (4)
Dad turns out to be closet alkie (5)
works in family store (12)
Geek in school (always)
meets love of life in HS (16)
family business closes (17)
graduates HS, move up quickly in job (17)
gets engaged to love of life (19)
gets married (21)
has son (25)
moves to burbs (28)
has wonderful marriage (21-38)
love of life get "weird" and leaves (39)
finds DS (39)
Next who knows...