@14: So you stalked you ex here (and I presume, in doing so, made her feel unsafe and chased her away), and you remain because you find us/our pain "interesting and humorous"?

Charming.

*Agreeing with SFY re last line of your statement*.

Would you care to tell me who's marriage I allegedly broke up? I am still trying to figure that one out...

I was born into a military family
Youngest of five
Developed Myoclonic Dystonia at 2
Went to 9 or 10 differant schools
Was raped when I was 10 - lasted 2 years
Oldest brother committed suicide when I was 12
Started cutting when I was 14
Graduated from HS
Graduated from UT
Got married
worked
had kids
worked
had more kids
worked more
Decided I needed help
Checked into facility for survivors - stayed 6 weeks
Came home a differant person
Struggled to keep marriage together
Decided it was over
Moved out
Here on DS...

Hatched
clucked around a little
met a hen
broke it off
repeated a few times
stalked by the then future hen
lived
worked
saw the world
hen took flight w/another rooster.
I'm here...

soon to be found in a bucket of KFC near you.

Bullshit! She has confronted you directly on several occasions.

Either way...whether you are who we believe you to be OR you are merely a person who stalked your ex here and chased her off, my original statement stands: Charming!

And this person that has confronted me, has accused me of breaking up her marriage?

On December 7th, 2009, I asked you...look at your hugbook...you denied it...I also sent you private messages asking you. You denied it. I am almost certain it is you.

Now, for the reason that you say that you are here, it is still very disturbing. You came here disguised whether my ex's OW or someone's stalking ex...still disturbing.

So, it is I that asked you and It is I, that wonders still but, I no longer really care and am disturbed at your reason for being here.

besides...whether or not you are...*shrugs*...he had his part in it. He has moved on from both whether or not it is you that is...

So has her ex lesbian lover, apparently.

Wow, R'man this is a very thought provoking thread.... I actually am getting acquainted with people that I have known for a while!

Let's see...
- I was born in Ft. Worth, TX...
- Have a very large extended family that were a huge part of my upbringing.. (parent's were too busy)... I was shuffled all across the state of Texas as a child... But VERy happy memories of feeling special and very loved by these family members...
- graduated high school two years early (at 16)
- Started college
- Met the first "love of my life" became engaged,got pregnant and he bailed.
- Preceded to raise my son by myself at 19
- Met the ex at 25 and married in 6 months
- Had my second son exactly 40 weeks to the day of my wedding day.
- Ex cheated, was very emotionally and physically abusive.
- Halloween night 1991 ex tried to kill me... I was 4 months pregnant, my daughter was delivered by C-section dead. I got to hold her.. she was smaller than my hand but was perfectly formed.. I spent months in ICU and then in a safe house as my ex still wanted to kill me and restraining orders were useless...
-1992 my divorce was finalized and the judged ordered me to get a "shot gun" for protection and told my ex that I would use it to kill if he ever so much as stepped on my property again.
- I found DS in an attempt to get some help and advice for severe anger issues by my then 16-year-old son...
- 17 years later, I met and fell in love with the man I am married to now... some of you know that story.. it did not start out too smooth... He was my choice and I was his option for over a year and a half as he was still involved with his ex.... He finally made the "RIGHT" choice and here we are...
- As Z would state... TADA

So my statement was, I am not the ow who is accused of breaking up another DS members marriage. Are you saying I am the OW who broke up your marriage?

I believe she said that.


Either way the general consensus stands:

ex-stalking = poor character

This thread made me remember this gem -

"I don't know half of you half as well as I should like; and I like less than half of you half as well as you deserve." - Bilbo Baggins

Soy.... why did you deny being confronted and deny knowing who it was that you were supposed to have broken up their marriage? Seems a bit suspicious to me....

Either you ARE indeed the woman who helped Donny to break up his/Z's marriage OR (as you stated yourself) you are a stalker who came to DS with the sole reason of checking/harassing your ex girlfriend and chasing her off of her "safe place". Now, you claim that you are here merely because we amuse you.

You don't need to use your Phd to make an educated guess as to your motives (based on your own words).

Classsssssyyyyyy