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This board has become less about healing...

downforthecount
downforthecount
and more like a bloody tabloid. Okay, so "take what you like and leave the rest" but holy crap!

Who Cheats More?

Jesus this Jesus that!

I got more money than my ex!

I would never date a cheater!

I'm a better Christian than you are!

Man-bashers!

What was the worst thing you ever did to get back at someone?

And the ever popular, "it was all his fault because he cheated on me because I was perfect and my marriage was perfect and fuck you for even suggesting I look at what I contributed to the problem"

Can't anyone do any better than that? Even the support seems trite and contrived.

Sometimes this drivel makes the STAR look like a better read all the time.

I guess this is a sign thet I need to move on....where's the damn tylenol!!!!
frstperrygrl
frstperrygrl
So here I sit and read all of this and thought it is time for me to say my peace also. I am very new here and my brakeup is new also. I come in here and read things and look for advice on things and give advice. I don't see what it matters what the advice is about or what they are saying. Like others have said if you have something to say then say it if not then just leave it alone. I have posted things with just a few people responding and then to see something like this and all the responses on it-well I hope you feel better for it because you got everyones attention on here and that makes it that they aren't in the other rooms helping others. Who are you to say whose post shouldn't be or what? Those people that made those topics have just as much right to ask for advice or make a discussion as you do and if it helps them feel better or to heal then good for them. I don't have all the answers and never said I did but I came here to get help dealing with things that I have a hard time dealing with myself. There is times when I might bash my stbx and there is times I might cry or whine as you call it but that is me and I have a right to do that if I want to. People come in here for the hlep and advice and to have some friends to talk to and how dare you try to tell them what they can or can't talk about. Hope this helps you and maybe you should really think about what you are really saying and please don't name names as you have done by posting the topics to others because rather you know it or not that just hurts others and that is not what this site is all about.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Jac-Jac I love your comments..very positive..and very funny..

OMGoodness!LOL, to "sand in the vagina" and codiene w/ the tylenol...LMAO!

I think everyone made good points here.. and I enjoyed reading this thread.. thanks MrD' for sharing...

While I do understand the venting, ect.. and everyone's view.. I must admit, occasionally I wish we there was a rating for
'uninspirational' or 'unhelpful' when some state hurtful comments to the poster.. or a group of people gang up on someone wishing to gain knowledge.

and what I really like most in this discussion is

"PEACE, LOVE & UNITY PEOPLE!"