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Realization to action

Rman
Rman
How do you move from the point of finally realizing something, to actually doing something about it? How do you get past that barrier standing in the way? I'm asking for a friend...
deleted_user
deleted_user
There's Peart, Rich, and the rest. Some other guy could smack the drums around pretty good in the 40's too. I forget his name.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hey, whats up RMan? Thanks alot dude, I appreciate it.

The Cure are amazing. That song is exceptionally cool.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Keith Moon was an awesome drummer too. Probably my favorite of all time
deleted_user
deleted_user
too bad i never witnessed him first hand
Rman
Rman
TD...I think you mean Krupa...
deleted_user
deleted_user
You are correct!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Nicko Mcbrain isn't too shabby either.
Rman
Rman
if you stick around long enough at that last clip i sent...and watch it from about 4:00 to the end...you will see the real band
before that was just an intro...they are very instrumental...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yea they are. I watched the whole video. I dont think Ive ever come across a Cure song I didn't love
deleted_user
deleted_user
Drumming gods aside, and as to the original question, this is what I did.

Packed my shit. Called my friends. Left.

Much happier now.

The end.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I
deleted_user
deleted_user
I heart the cure...
deleted_user
deleted_user
In the end, it may take one final incident for your friend to make their move. I left many times and went back. This is normal.

Bonham & Moon
deleted_user
deleted_user
Tell your friend sometimes you never get past that barrier....fortunately, sometimes the other person does...
mavsgirl
mavsgirl
hmmm... first, I heart the Cure.

Second, I have a friend that highly recommends the bottle of whiskey and a Magic 8 ball technique to moving forward & I do have to say it has come in handy more than once for me.

Personally with my marriage, I chose the 1 thing that I knew would cause me to never be able to trust him again, and have asked my friends and family to remind me of it whenever I stop moving forward with my decision to leave him.

The whiskey & Magic 8 ball is definitely more fun though!