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Realization to action

Rman
Rman
How do you move from the point of finally realizing something, to actually doing something about it? How do you get past that barrier standing in the way? I'm asking for a friend...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think that the realization is about 75% of the battle. The rest is just being conscious and awake...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am a list maker. I would make lists of 'stuff' I had to do to be ready to do something......until a friend pointed out that I never GOT anywhere and "to stop thinkng so much because your mind is made up...now got out of your own way." I say that last part to myself quite often. Tell your friend good luck!
deleted_user
deleted_user
*get
LKess
LKess
I think it has something to do with MOTIVATION.....which I haven't had lately.....
deleted_user
deleted_user
lots and lots of lube. thats how
deleted_user
deleted_user
Could take YEARS for your "friend" to actually do something. Just because the path is clear, doesn't mean we always take it.
JennyMe
JennyMe
get off ur ass and make it happen
deleted_user
deleted_user
Whatever your "friend" does, tell them to NOT EVER use an external motivator. Right action with wrong reason, makes wrong action.
deleted_user
deleted_user
pls, ask for IQ WILL YA? You are so into smarts and only, so they are fake friends? No worries you have a computer.
Rman
Rman
listen to the percussion in this song...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1RbnqotjDo
or don't...
deleted_user
deleted_user
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qF-k4wg70rg
Rman
Rman
Of course Peart is a percussionist...he has a PhD too...in drums...
I like Bonham
deleted_user
deleted_user
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPiAWfprCzI
deleted_user
deleted_user
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_T4YXhnveA&feature=related
Rman
Rman
What's up, heterobot...
check out this song...it's almost as good as barry manilow...good luck with the upcoming miracle...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M_Bo2kTFLJ4&feature=related