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Went into work and got another bomb dropped on me today. At this point I am probably going to start looking for another job. I can no longer deal with what the place I work at is putting me through. It is ridicilious that you go out and do a good job and they have nothing better to do then Monday Morning Quarterback all of your decisions and find things wrong when they try to look for things to find wrong. If you can't find anything that is concrete they use abstract things and find fault with you.
This year has been one hell of a year for me. I have lost my house to my wife, I lost my wife, had all kinds of health problems, and now my job is in parrel now.
At this point not much else can go wrong and I know that I am hitting rock bottom. I am wondering what I will do to sustain a living as I am not going to stick around my workplace and let the crucify me.
I think that I am going to pull out of my lease on my house and try to find a job close to my home town. I am unsure what will happen from here.
Guys, I am doing okay right now and I realize this is something that I must deal with, just like the divorce that is almost done. I should have left my job and found a new one last summer when things were better but I thought that I would try to stick it out and try to make things work out. I knew that I had a bullseye on me but I thought that I would try to get through it and avoid any other drastic change.
I haven't begun to worry too much about this because I haven't started looking for a job. I just hope that I can find something quick and I don't have to take too big of a paycut.
This year has been one hell of a year for me. I have lost my house to my wife, I lost my wife, had all kinds of health problems, and now my job is in parrel now.
At this point not much else can go wrong and I know that I am hitting rock bottom. I am wondering what I will do to sustain a living as I am not going to stick around my workplace and let the crucify me.
I think that I am going to pull out of my lease on my house and try to find a job close to my home town. I am unsure what will happen from here.
Guys, I am doing okay right now and I realize this is something that I must deal with, just like the divorce that is almost done. I should have left my job and found a new one last summer when things were better but I thought that I would try to stick it out and try to make things work out. I knew that I had a bullseye on me but I thought that I would try to get through it and avoid any other drastic change.
I haven't begun to worry too much about this because I haven't started looking for a job. I just hope that I can find something quick and I don't have to take too big of a paycut.
it seems like everything is coming down at once where you are losing pieces of the life you thought was yours. I know what it is like to lose one thing at a time until the entire puzzle was broken down and each piece was gone finally. I remember thinking that "I should get out of that job, that relationship, this town, etc. but each time I didnt. I stayed in hopes things would work out because I thought this was what my life was to be. But as I lost each piece of it; my job, the ho, my dog, etc. I started to think there was a reason I had to lose each piece of my life as I knew it. That if I didnt, I would most likely continue on with how I was living, and how I was living wasnt a life of my own at all.
So I like to believe that all these things happen for a reason. That we wouldnt be dealt something that we couldnt handle or that wasnt going to be good for us in the long run. That sometimes, things are done because we need that lil shove cus we cant seem to do it for ourselves.
Things will work themselves out. Just stay strong and positive and it will get better.
Best wishes and God bless.
Never settle.
I realize that there are very few loyal things in the world and a job definately isn't one of them. It is hard to tell a friend from a Brutus.
Life is tough and it is full of nasty decisions that we have to make. This is one of those times. I am formulating a plan and I think that I have my ducks in a row. God help me.
All in all, we all do the best we can with how muach we know. We will never know everything there is to know about anyone, so you either enjoy the process of getting to know them (positive learning experience) or you don't Inegative learning experience).
In my opinion, you just get frustrated when you think you know all there is to know about people.
There are good people out there too you know. It is just that crap sticks with crap and good stick with good. Being more careful in depositing trust sounds good to me now.
Et Tu Brutis?
Brutus is potentially in everyone by choice. Human behaviour is smething. I prefer Santa Claus.
No matter what you have done differntly though, I would not have changed the fact that you are dealing with crap, and crap has a life of its own and will fuck up your mind and things because crap just does crap.