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Went into work and got another bomb dropped on me today. At this point I am probably going to start looking for another job. I can no longer deal with what the place I work at is putting me through. It is ridicilious that you go out and do a good job and they have nothing better to do then Monday Morning Quarterback all of your decisions and find things wrong when they try to look for things to find wrong. If you can't find anything that is concrete they use abstract things and find fault with you.
This year has been one hell of a year for me. I have lost my house to my wife, I lost my wife, had all kinds of health problems, and now my job is in parrel now.
At this point not much else can go wrong and I know that I am hitting rock bottom. I am wondering what I will do to sustain a living as I am not going to stick around my workplace and let the crucify me.
I think that I am going to pull out of my lease on my house and try to find a job close to my home town. I am unsure what will happen from here.
Guys, I am doing okay right now and I realize this is something that I must deal with, just like the divorce that is almost done. I should have left my job and found a new one last summer when things were better but I thought that I would try to stick it out and try to make things work out. I knew that I had a bullseye on me but I thought that I would try to get through it and avoid any other drastic change.
I haven't begun to worry too much about this because I haven't started looking for a job. I just hope that I can find something quick and I don't have to take too big of a paycut.
This year has been one hell of a year for me. I have lost my house to my wife, I lost my wife, had all kinds of health problems, and now my job is in parrel now.
At this point not much else can go wrong and I know that I am hitting rock bottom. I am wondering what I will do to sustain a living as I am not going to stick around my workplace and let the crucify me.
I think that I am going to pull out of my lease on my house and try to find a job close to my home town. I am unsure what will happen from here.
Guys, I am doing okay right now and I realize this is something that I must deal with, just like the divorce that is almost done. I should have left my job and found a new one last summer when things were better but I thought that I would try to stick it out and try to make things work out. I knew that I had a bullseye on me but I thought that I would try to get through it and avoid any other drastic change.
I haven't begun to worry too much about this because I haven't started looking for a job. I just hope that I can find something quick and I don't have to take too big of a paycut.
I will try to take sick leave this week. They drop the big bomb on me the day before Thanksgiving. How freaking common is that?
Good things are just around the corner now.
I know the politics in the workplace can really suck.
Hugs to you.
Try to focus on the activities and not so much on the people..
I would also love to leave my job right away but first we need to put the bread on the table!!
Take care!
On Monday I am going to the Doctor. I will probably get put out of work for a while. This will delay the crap that is going on at work and I can probably escape to a new job. That is the plan. Let's hope it works. I need the Doctor to order no stress at all for me because of this and if they do they can't do their interview with me at work and that will stall what they are doing.
The odd thing about the whole thing with my blood pressure is that my palse is excellent. This morning it was 58 and today normally it was around 64. Thank God I am in pretty good shape.
I have already sent an email to my landlord and explained the situation to them and attempted to back out of my lease. I should be able to do that at the end of December.
The plan is to get off for two weeks, move back into my parents home, and start job searching. I have already sent out two resumes to insurance companies.
God help me.