Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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Went into work and got another bomb dropped on me today. At this point I am probably going to start looking for another job. I can no longer deal with what the place I work at is putting me through. It is ridicilious that you go out and do a good job and they have nothing better to do then Monday Morning Quarterback all of your decisions and find things wrong when they try to look for things to find wrong. If you can't find anything that is concrete they use abstract things and find fault with you.
This year has been one hell of a year for me. I have lost my house to my wife, I lost my wife, had all kinds of health problems, and now my job is in parrel now.
At this point not much else can go wrong and I know that I am hitting rock bottom. I am wondering what I will do to sustain a living as I am not going to stick around my workplace and let the crucify me.
I think that I am going to pull out of my lease on my house and try to find a job close to my home town. I am unsure what will happen from here.
Guys, I am doing okay right now and I realize this is something that I must deal with, just like the divorce that is almost done. I should have left my job and found a new one last summer when things were better but I thought that I would try to stick it out and try to make things work out. I knew that I had a bullseye on me but I thought that I would try to get through it and avoid any other drastic change.
I haven't begun to worry too much about this because I haven't started looking for a job. I just hope that I can find something quick and I don't have to take too big of a paycut.
This year has been one hell of a year for me. I have lost my house to my wife, I lost my wife, had all kinds of health problems, and now my job is in parrel now.
At this point not much else can go wrong and I know that I am hitting rock bottom. I am wondering what I will do to sustain a living as I am not going to stick around my workplace and let the crucify me.
I think that I am going to pull out of my lease on my house and try to find a job close to my home town. I am unsure what will happen from here.
Guys, I am doing okay right now and I realize this is something that I must deal with, just like the divorce that is almost done. I should have left my job and found a new one last summer when things were better but I thought that I would try to stick it out and try to make things work out. I knew that I had a bullseye on me but I thought that I would try to get through it and avoid any other drastic change.
I haven't begun to worry too much about this because I haven't started looking for a job. I just hope that I can find something quick and I don't have to take too big of a paycut.
still reading heave...
It will get better.
In the mean time Fxxx the boss!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=knetbVx5A-Q
As for a rule, I have a family full of cops, they as a group do not take criticism well.
Do you have a mentor in your profesion?
Do you have one in your office.
I have several. Ass kissing gets me promoted I dont know if that will work for you.
Just remember criticism is like mud. It washes off quickly.
The only time criticism hurts me is when it might be true.
They cant change but you could and you might be able to fit in with a littlle adjustment.
I neede to see a job coach to learn what my job was and how to do it better. Idid this on my own.
I hope I sent out some ideas that just might help. Sometimes hearring some aptions works.
Plaese do nat act hatily.
I do best with a plan. Ask slac for a plan she is right brain crazy smart.