NO ONE should be physically beating you. Not your husband, not anyone.

Please please call a "Domestic abuse hotline" (put those words into Google). They will be able to help you.

He is showing you his true colors. It's only been 5 months married and look how bad things are. They will only get worse from here on out. I worry for your safety and for your life.

Getting this marriage annulled and you getting far, far away from him, is what I would advise.

He will not change! And he will get even more abusive toward you. Please do not believe any of the words he says. Actions speak louder than words.

Call the Domestic Abuse Hotline for anonymous help with this.

Take care of yourself. Please.

I agree with GirlinCalif . Get as far away as possible as soon as possible. Don’t wait till next beating. It could be too late.

I am so sorry your marriage and husband have turned sour. This man is exactly like his parents and it is time to cut your losses. Now I believe a married couple should share money, have joint accounts, and pay rent to the parents if they are living there. So it is hard for me to know if you are actually paying your share of the expenses or if this guy and his parents are abusive. You are married into a highly patriarchal family, meaning the man comes first. Immature parents usually defend their adult children's abusive or violent behaviors. So the parents are not on your side either. This man will not rescue you or provide you a good life. Your husband is mean and abusive. Your choice is to stay as an abused wife and in an unhappy, abusive marriage or to decide to find your courage and seek your freedom. This is domestic abuse or domestic violence as Girl wrote. Do not think you can fix or change this man or the family or the marriage. Please come back and let us know how you are doing. I would encourage you to make plans to get out of that house secretly. Do not tell husband or his mother or anyone but a friend what you are planning. Get to a good divorce attorney to find out about restraining orders, etc. Go to a domestic violence shelter for help or call into a helpline when you are away from the house. Get some education and make a plan for your safety. Do not trust anyone in that house. Hide your money away from the house in a bank account no one knows about. I say this because of the marital abuse even though I think partners should be sharing expenses and finances. At this point, you will need your money from your job to survive outside the house and marriage. If you don't have a job, get one immediately if you can. Or can you move back into the living situation you had before or with parents or relatives? Take care of yourself, please come back and let us know how you are doing. Your job now is not to try to change him any longer but to start to think logically and be protective of your self.

I concur with GirlinCalif DO NOT LET HIM BEAT YOU!! get out of there if he is. I tell people to leave if it ever happens ONE TIME and never look back you don't deserve that at all.

You saw how his parents were and they were his main influence growing up. Key indicators of how an individual will be in adulthood or in a marriage are how his/her parents act toward their partner.

Your best getting out of it now before kids come into the picture so pack your bags and get out of there. He hit you it should be over. DONT TAKE HIS WORD HE WON'T DO IT AGAIN! Just GO!!

Run, don't walk to the nearest exit and get out of that so-called relationship. To me it sounds more like indentured servitude, as if you have no rights at all.

Does he work or is he a bum? You deserve better than your getting.

Marriage is a place to exercise patient but not a to be humiliated rather a place to be honoured and when your partner is not honouring you, then you have involved the concern authority as GirlinCalif said since, you contacted his parents and no feedback.

Thanks everyone for your support.. I'm thinking to leave him. But still my parents are convincing me to give me another chance.. and asked us to stay separately from his parents.. at my home they are saying like under influence of his parents he is behaving like this. Once u leave them and move out he may be good. But I'm not sure about this

Cathy, Do your parents know that your husband beat you up?

Are you telling your parents the whole truth of what is going on in this marriage?

You need to tell your parents that he beat you, and that you fear for your safety. You need to speak up for yourself!

Call the police if you need to. Your life and your safety are more important than this abusive guy or what your parents "think you should do". You need to speak up. Your LIFE is at stake!

I can relate to a lot of what you are posting...promises before marriage, him having abusive parents, him changing his attitude after marriage, and the physical abuse to you. I was in your shoes and I kept trying to "make it work." However the abuse escalated, and I worry that will happen to you. He might be hitting you now, but this could turn into threats, emotional/sexual/financial abuse. A hotline I used to help myself get ready to leave is the national domestic abuse hotline in the US. Are you in the US? You can call and talk to a domestic violence advocate, or even just text them on your own. The most dangerous time for you is when you tell you husband you want to leave, or you start to leave. So I wouldn't talk to him about it until you have a plan for your safety. Also, you might not feel like you can leave for so many reasons (housing, finances, etc) but if you work with the counselor or the hotline they can help you with that as well. Here is the link to the hotline:

https://www.thehotline.org/