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i miss him

bmio
bmio

it's been 2-3 months since we broke up. i saw him the other day at school. i have imagined it a hundred times, i should have been ready but i was not. we both didn't look at each other, i just couldn't. we walked away, without any eye contact. i know he saw me, he knows i saw him. and there goes nothing. i just miss him so much but i know i shouldn't do anything. god, i miss him so much and i don't know what to do.

11Christmases
11Christmases
You are already doing the right thing - sticking to no contact. Stay strong! I assume this is the guy you posted about in September. If you ended things and managed to not speak to him today, good for you! I'm proud of you. You deserve so much better.
GirlinCalif
GirlinCalif
That's a tough one to go through, but hey, you got through it! Give yourself a pat on the back for that. Bound to run into him somewhere, some time. You did good!

Yes, if this is that Friends With Benefits guy from September, then you were better off without him and you knew that. So you saw him walking at school. Tough to see, but oh well, our exes still walk on this planet. We all might run into ours at some point and you handled it very well. You will be fine. Try not to dwell on him.
bmio
bmio
omg thank you both i cant believe you remember me and my story! thank you guys really! this felt good. i wanted to text him but i didn't thanks to you. you are right just because we broke up with our exes doesn't mean they won't walk on this planet lol.
apparently, we will come across often cause he works in the same work center with me. next time i'll be stronger, won't turn my eyes away, look him in the eye and then walk away like nothing ever happened. i guess it was me couldn't look him in the eye was the point makes me this upset.
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