Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I hurt like hell sometimes. I feel sadness. I feel sick to my stomach. I have a hard time sleeping. I do a lot of dwelling on what went wrong. I am scared for my kids. I don't know what will happen in the future. I know I'm alive. I know my kids are healthy. I know I am not alone. I try to work on myself a little each day. I try to be funny, so that I can get a break from my negativity. I look for the positive in life.
So, how do you feel?
So, how do you feel?
Secondly, I feel the following:
-Scared about being a single father.
-Anxious about being single.
-Hurt that I gave her a second chance and she STILL crushed me.
-Jealous that he can f'ing lie to her, buy her gifts and use lines he used on his STBX on her and she eats it up.
-Pissed off that the life I gave her wasn't good enough.
-Disappointed that she would turn around and promise to marry and have children with him, and leave behind so quickly all the dreams and memories we shared.
-Humiliated that she basically acted like she was divorced around her co-workers and at after hours parties and stooped to carrying on in sick rooms, vehicles, parking garages and sleazy motels.
-Disappointed that her family was less important than a liar.
-Amazed that she actually tries to get people to believe that a cheating, lying, abusive, manipulative overgrown child is a "really good person."
-Not that shocked that she attacks the OM's W, even though she was the one who provided the sackless moron the way out of his marriage when he was afraid to get out of it.
-Hurt that she could open up and discuss her issues with him when she couldn't share them with the man who spent almost 16 years being there for her - through births, deaths, good times, bad times, heartbreaks, success, disappointments and so much more.
-Hopeful that someone will want to share things with me and ONLY me someday.