Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I have been in a relationship with the same man for ten years now. I am at a point now that i just want to move on but don't know how. It is a more a relationship of convenience than anything . we don't live together. And will not be able to due to his mother. We see each other once a week if we are lucky. But he keeps me waiting .there are nights he could come see me but doesn't bother . there was a time when he and i were very much sexually active. Now it doesn't even exist .i could go on and on .i am just not happy anymore .
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My best friend ruined my day with her immature, bitchy self. If she doesn't get her way, she has a tizzy fit. I told her weeks ago that I couildn't go to yard sales with her on 9/12 because i have a hair appointment. She wasn't happy. I also told her that I don't have any money to go to yard sales. She tried to talk me into going to more yard sales by saying that if I don't go, there...
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The Friday before Labor Day just before we left, the options given to me basically were either quit of be fired, and if I were to stay on I were to be put on an improvement plan, which is pretty much synonymous with getting fired. I was going to do the improvement plan and just ride it out until I found another job due to money and due to the fact that I did not want to quit without another job....
It is always best to listen to your heart. But then, who started it all? So many times I've wondered in my own arguments, how long has this been going on, and where did it all start? Certainly does not help if his mother is involved either, only triggers more flaky ways. I only suggest that you remember the things that really matter the most.
Best to you! <3
I doubt you envision the relationship getting any better, so you have 2 choices.
1) stay and waste more of your life, or
2) go and start living your life.
Thankfully, with the help of my friends who constantly giving me advice, I was completely healed emotionally. Please try to talk to your boyfriend and whatever decision you may come up to, I pray that you will have peace. Please keep us posted. God bless.
"Peace exists inside every person, and it is up to us to make it flow freely, so that it can illuminate life with its presence, and give us the strength necessary to triumph over all obstacles."
A teaching of a rare quality, dedicated to all those who thirst for peace, justice, light and love -- and who are, above all, ready to take action.
Break off the relationship and don't have any contact. It will hurt, like all breakups, but look onward. Please don't make the mistake of a) going out to dinner, b) have sex, c) talk on the phone, with this person after you break up.
The best thing is a clean breakup regardless of your age, etc. Learn to be happy and do things on your own. Don't depend on the guy to be happy. It takes time to heal a broken heart, or letting go of the "getting used to" part. Don't try to jump into another relationships (what people call rebounds) that just creates problems for you.
I hope you heal, and in the process you spend a lot of time with yourself (and family and friends) and discover the joys of being happy and admiring all what you have and your worth (hint: we are invaluable).
Lots of care and love.