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tynee5511
tynee5511

So I saw today that he has wasted no time to put his Facebook back up which caused a big problem in our relationship because he tended to use it as a dating website although it stings a little bit because I see that he's quickly moving on with his life and doesn't care about me at all but on the flip side of things I still understand that he's not good for me and this is all just a part of moving on with life. I don't even know why I care or I'm even surprised he just did what I thought he would do anyway. Maybe he will find someone more along his age range and his maturity level because it was not working out for him and I.

Tonell18
Tonell18
You're better off without him. It's amazing how fast they can move on
tynee5511
tynee5511
It is but I can't worry about it my life is peaceful now without him and that's such a good feeling I love him and I can never understand how he could always move on so fast when we would have arguments but I pray that I will get stronger with that to where I am not affected by it
mirandac
mirandac
They Are fast little devils shows you who they truly are. Hugs
serenityspeaks
serenityspeaks
Hugs....
Lonestar
Lonestar
Some people have no moral compass. They can ignore what they do to other people - somehow they justify they did nothing wrong. Mine told me I was better off without him - like that made everything ok. And I wouldn't be hurt or betrayed by his actions. No conscious at all.
mirandac
mirandac
Whats a moral compass :)
samantha717
samantha717
Do yourself a huge favor and stop checking his FB. I know it's hard, but you can't heal and move on yourself otherwise. Hopefully, you can now see for sure that the problem was never you, but rather HIM. You were just another appliance to him, like a washing machine or a dishwasher. You had your function in his life, as do all the other women in his life past and present, and now he has to replace you. I don't mean to sound rude, but that's how some of these guys think. They don't see you as a human being with wants and needs of your own. In fact, they get downright annoyed when you remind them of them. They just want you in their lives to do what they want when they want it and don't bother them with what you need. By leaving him, you are putting yourself first and that's good!
tynee5511
tynee5511
Thank all of you for all of your kind words but yes I did block him from Facebook and I promise and vowed to myself that I will not check anymore it's pointless and it can be something that can only hurt me
Lyra1
Lyra1
I got the old, I'm better off without him nonsense too.
patti22
patti22
As time goes by, and you see the drama unfolding in his life, you'll be gladder and gladder that it's not you anymore...
ClearDay1
ClearDay1
Well, I just wanted to chime in here.

Not only do I agree with all of the above, but the Facebook people, who have something obviously to prove to the world, the new car pics, the look how happy I am pics...ugh.

They're full of shit.
mirandac
mirandac
My ex and his women love fakebook.
HUGS
tynee5511
tynee5511
Thank you guys I can't wait until I get to the point where nothing he does affects me it doesn't really affect me now because I'm busy trying to better my own life but it still hurts a little bit but I will not check his Facebook anymore I know that he has moved on quickly as he always does and that doesn't do anything but make my heart grow more distance from him
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