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So yesterday my wife asks me if I'm going to rake the leaves. I told her that I was going to do laundry, go grocery shopping and watch football. She then proceeded to tell me that all the neighbors were outside raking and that I was the only "man" not doing any yard work. I simply said that I didn't care what the neighbors thought of me and that I was sticking to my plan. Well, she grabbed the rake, as well as my two daughters and spent about 4 hours outside raking. Some of the neighbors even came by to help out. I just sat on my couch, watching football and watching my yard get cleaned up for me. Did I feel bad? Just a little bit. Did I get over it? Yeah, in about 30 seconds.
Oh well.
Hope you had a nice day Rman.. By the way, who did the cooking yesterday - You or her?
YAY!!
And why the heck did you pick a house with 4 hours worth of leaves to rake?
proof you do yard work!
ps my mom has a huge house and she loves the leaves on ground. she paints pictures of them and says it is the beauty of nature.
my grandmother on the other hand is super obsessed and looks out the window and get so mad when any leaves from the neighbors blow into her yard. she watches for it..
Hate it, Hate it, Hate it, Hate it, Hate it.
The first 1/2 hour is fine, but after hours and hours of raking or blowing all you do is think of all the other things that could be getting done.
I still have hours of blowing to do. Did I mention I hate it?
How's that been since? You're likely going to be punished, and it is just being added to her list of ways you fail her.
I dont think you did anything wrong, but she will make you pay.