Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Lynne
I don't make mistakes. Everything I do I do for a reason. People may not agree with what I do but I am the one who is going to have to answer for my actions. Only me.
If I don't like someone it is for a reason. If I piss you off it is for a reason. If I don't want you in my life it is for a reason. If I breakup with you it is for a reason. If I invest in Girl Scout Thin Mints it is for a reason.
People need to be more accountable for their actions.
Think about it everything you do you do for a reason.
I admit I am a hypocrite, so I've probably made the mistake of flaunting that quality a few times.
I've also made the mistake of trusting some people here that I didn't know well enough.
but something about assuming people want to be treated the way I would like to be treated
and then finding out theyre hurt by that
Well there was that one time that I got banned, but I swear I didn't do anything. It was all a big misunderstanding. The DS admins had the wrong guy, I'm innocent I tell ya!
I think I say something wrong every day at DS. I try to apologize if it becomes apparent to me it affected someone else negatively at all. Sometimes I forget online stuff doesn't include facial expressions and not everyone knows me well enough to know I am always joking around.. working on editing skills.. (since there is NO EDIT button!)
Actually as I think of this, I think my biggest mistake has been feeling hurt by some people's rejection. That and I've often had a hard time showing when I'm hurting. Oh well,