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Ya know...I was just messaging a friend and this occurred to me...what is it that I am looking for in a future mate. I know that my ex and I were not truly compatible or we would have survived through the challenges we faced. I know I want someone who is very attractive, (petty I know and shallow), I want someone who is willing to talk problems and challenges out, someone who is willing to communicate with me, someone who has a very aggressive sexual appetite, someone who understands about dreams and is willing to stand by my side as I make them come true, some one who is willing to support me, someone who wants to help me keep a clean house, someone who doesn't mind taking her share of the cooking, someone who likes getting wet (swimming, showering...use you imagination)...someone who loves movies and also could leave the TV off for days and just relax and read, someone who loves a good fire and cuddling, someone who can accept me with all of my faults and still love me in spite of them...
what do you want......and how do we find it?????????
what do you want......and how do we find it?????????
Able to laugh. Willing to loosen up and not care who might be around. Just have Fun...fun is a very simple concept, it can be walking in a park and naming Songs by lyrics.
Someone who can just be Still and appreciate something Beautiful.
Someone who Reads something other than technical manuals...and can communicate.
Oh, and communication does not mean getting louder and louder while saying the same thing over and over.
2) makes me laugh anytime even when I am upset.
3) will love my son and me and has a open heart for love.
4) can talk things out and not walk away.
5) wants to spend time with us and have fun.
6) listen to what I say and needs and willing to do the same about himself.
7) wants to get to know me and not just talk dirty.
8) is independent and has a life but has room to add us to it.
9) Think family and friend are the most important thing.
10) can flirt and make me feel special.
11) take me out on dates, even after we been together for a while.
12) know how to be happy/easy going( to a point) and thinks positivity.
13) can just be them self around me
14) be a partner and will help each other out and not expect me to do everything.
15) trust me enough to let me have a life outside of him.
5'5", dark hair, either latina or asian, thin build with a nice big ass, a small C cup, and dark eyes.
She'd have to be bilingual (preferably multilingual), enjoy single malt scotch and/or shiraz, and cook like a fucking gourmet chef. Inversely, she would be an absolute whore in the bedroom/kitchen/movie theater/public library/ etc.
To top it off, she'd have extraordinary knowledge of music, film, art, and literature, but our tastes would differ significantly. This way we could have spirited discussions, and never get bored of exploring one another.
Obviously, this woman does not exist, so I'll take whatever bar skank that comes along with a full set of teeth...
I have 1 thing to add,
someone who can handle the truth, who doesn't want to hear a lie.
"Take My Breath Away"
Watching every motion
In my foolish lover's game
On this endless ocean
Finally lovers know no shame
Turning and returning
To some secret place inside
Watching in slow motion
As you turn around and say
My love
Take my breath away
Take my breath away
Watching I keep waiting
Still anticipating love
Never hesitating
To become the fated ones
Turning and returning
To some secret place inside
Watching in slow motion
As you turn around and say
My love
Take my breath away
Take my breath away
Through the hourglass I saw you
In time you slipped away
When the mirror crashed I called you
And turned to hear you say
If only for today
I am unafraid
Take my breath away
Take my breath away
Watching every motion
In this foolish lovers game
Haunted by the notion
Somewhere there's a love in flames
Turning and returning
To some secret place inside
Watching in slow motion
As you turn around and say
My love
Take my breath away
Take my breath away
Ineed a man who is a good at asking for what he needs. Who can have respectiful disagreements and who understands the value of saying I'm sorry. He must be a good financial manager. He shouldn't be so deep into sports that ESPN is the only thing he wants to do all weekend long. He must place the family and spending time together as one of his highese priorities. He must love children and like to play. He'll like water boating, oceans, lakes. He must be giving in the bedroom and in life. I'd love someone who can fix things. (I don't need an expensive gift but if you can hang my spice rack that would be so wonderful). I tend to be attracted to tall brunetts but am not so closed minded to consider others. He should come from a protestant christian background. I donno I guess that is it.
Someone HONEST. Tired of the bullshit.
My requirements are someone that can appreciate my insane sense of humour and eclectic taste in music, understand that I have a firey temper that flares up suddenly, but when I'm done, it's over. That can deal with the fact that I'm usually on my way somewhere, and I'm usually late.
He would need to be able to accept the fact that I go off on strange tangents in conversation, come up with insane ideas and plans, that I would call about random events that are occuring. Be able to provide me directions when I call because I'm lost (again).
LET me do all the cooking, but at least help with the damn dishes!
He's gotta be under six foot, because I'm scared of tall men. Dark hair and eyes. Quick witted, intelligent, fun, but NOT immature, with a wild streak. There's extra points for creativity. They need a GREAT voice, and a strong personality.
Can I get fries with that?