Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
In work today . Who should walk in. My husband. I was looking at my phone and he said. Who are you texting? Is it a man? I said no. Go away or il call police. He left. Bit later he's looking at me through my work window. I didn't see him straight away. I was again looking at my phone. Strange how he came twice when I was doing something with my phone. Anyway. I looked up and there he was. He said . Who is that email off. I read all that then? No way could he have seen anything on my phone as he wasn't close enough. Even though he was pressed up to the glass windows. I told him to go away again. He left. What I was trying to do on my phone was to download a phone and text blocker so I could block him. He is crazy When I finished work today there was a note on my windscreen of my car. It said . I love you (my name) and only you. Please believe me. It's hard for me without that. Am bit better than yesterday though. My feeling are all over the place. He plays mind games creepy
I understand you are hurting, but things are over between us and always will be. Nothing you do or say will change my mind.
Is he the type of person that would follow a restraining order?
If he is, then getting one is a good idea, if he's not....I might wait a bit.
In general it takes 6 weeks to break a habit. And you're a habit with him. I wouldn't change my phone number....just let all of his messages go to voice mail and return none of them.
You found it a mistake to talk to him before as he treats you bad. You have people trying to help you and get this man to leave you alone--please listen to them.