Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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In work today . Who should walk in. My husband. I was looking at my phone and he said. Who are you texting? Is it a man? I said no. Go away or il call police. He left. Bit later he's looking at me through my work window. I didn't see him straight away. I was again looking at my phone. Strange how he came twice when I was doing something with my phone. Anyway. I looked up and there he was. He said . Who is that email off. I read all that then? No way could he have seen anything on my phone as he wasn't close enough. Even though he was pressed up to the glass windows. I told him to go away again. He left. What I was trying to do on my phone was to download a phone and text blocker so I could block him. He is crazy When I finished work today there was a note on my windscreen of my car. It said . I love you (my name) and only you. Please believe me. It's hard for me without that. Am bit better than yesterday though. My feeling are all over the place. He plays mind games creepy
If he enters your business again, if it were me I would spray him in the face with the heavy stream pepper spray and then waffle him in the knees with the bat. And then call the police to pick him up. He'll be all over the floor and they'll see he's in your place and you defended yourself from his intrusion to get to you.
What he's doing isn't love, it's sick.
I can't put an advertisement here to show you which type the pepper spray is, but it's not a little canister and is a big canister about 6 inches long and it shoots out like a fire hose. Dog the Bounty Hunter uses it.
people have ways and people like this aren't in their right mind.
But I can sit here and type and type, and just like everyone else will type and type, but its up to you to continue to do something about it.
don't be another statistic of someone who thought "they can't and wouldn't do that"
That got my husband in real trouble with the Divorce court judge.
Don't let your husband get away with anything.
If she calls again, tell her you two are divorcing, you've met your quota for drama, and you are not interested in him and THEN HANG UP.
Sounds like your stbx has really got this family convinced that you are at fault in this whole D. Block them all if it's needed.
Any possibility you could get a large dog? Maybe a boxer? They are quite protective.
I know you will be so glad when all this is done, and he's moved on the next woman.
Take care my friend....hugs!
Deb