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Can it please get easier!!!!!

FogHornLegHorn
FogHornLegHorn

So I am at my boxing club today, and oneven of the guys in my gym said he seen my ex out running today. My stomach instantly went weak, I felt like I would loose it right there. Get home from the boxing gym, my 15 yr old is there, and said she came because her mom is going to some candle party. I without hesitation say, I bet she is going out to a bar. Why? Why do I do that? I am so fucking aggravated that I feel like this, I want it to be done already!!! I am so mad at myself, others and anything all the time, I hate this so much. Can it please just get easier. 

trueblue
trueblue
I know it is hard, but.....try not to say anything negative about your ex to your daughter. It will only strain your relationship with her (daughter).
ClearDay1
ClearDay1
This part sucks.

These feelings come up...ugh.

Relationships bring up our own issues. Our breakups bring up our own issues.

Do yourself a favor and figure out what youre supposed to learn from this and the feelings.

I was literally having panic attacks from trying to avoid dealing with them.

I too found myself behaving in ways that were out of character or not true to myself.

My life is literally on hold for such much needed self examination and reevaluating.

Hopefully we come out of this stronger and with a better sense of who we are and where we're going.

The good news is we have so much access to information and support now.
Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
It takes time to heal.... It wasn't until I let go of all the anger and resentment that I finally began to feel at peace. Acceptance allowed me to move on with my life.

God Bless
empty
empty
I know what you mean. I have never been angry in my life but when I saw a picture of my ex with a glass of wine saying thanks for the food rob
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