Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My ex left me for someone in a relationship essentially. He claims she doesn't even love her bf, and yet she still hasn't broken up with him. As someone who has never been unfaithful, or even thought about it, I don't get that. She's not married to him. She doesn't have any kids with him. She doens't even live with him, yet she won't leave him for my ex. He seems to not think that's an issue and has hope it will work out in the end.
Why would she stay if she didn't love him is the question? My ex ended up having to move back home (which is an hour away) because he couldn't get a place on his own. If she really loved him like she says she does (you can see from a previous post from the text screenshot I posted), then why wouldn't she just dump her bf and go to the man she claims she loves so much?
I don't want my ex back, but it does anger me that he left me for someone unavailable. He talks her up so much to me and defends her, like he never did me, and yet she still has a bf and lives in another city.
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My day...today...misplaced my debit card...didn't realize it until I got to the register after shopping to a full cart. Used a different debit card and pulled apart everything looking for missing debit card before I left parking lot. Got home, dropped keys. So now I have a missing debit card, missing keys. A full cartload to unload and put away. I got everything put away.Dumped purse for a...
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I don't really know how to label this but I having a rough week and I can't say it's one thing.... I have a lot on my plate which is nothing new and I try to cope in many positive ways and do but I still have my moments.My kids more so my daughters talk to me about everything which I know it's cause of comfort and we are close.... however I really struggle with the venting about their dad which...
know anything about my ex From anyone. That took
getting totally detached From him. No information is
golden, it only hurts to know what they are up to.
There are no good conversations we could Ever have.
We will never be friends again, too much damage, pain
and hurt. The only thing i can Hope for is an amends one
day if and when he grows Up and gets accountable for
his actions And behaviors.
I do not wish him harm or even his GF, my F&E are about
my ex and I and our 30 year marriage no one else. It takes
Time to work thru all the emotional baggage and the grieving,
HUGS
on all social media and anyone else that Will Bother you
emotionally. He belongs in your enemy camp.
I know what you are saying and going thru. Its hard and its
Going to take you awhile. I have not had any new awareness
About him or our marriage since all this started. Its where i am
on my own journey and how Much i can truly let go of and to
try to move on.
My ex was so rotten to me for a long time its Hard to get my
head around it. I have an idealized Version on when we were
so happy then things Started going the other way Very slowly.
The past Is in the past and can not be changed. We both had
issues, we Both come from the same types of background. That
does not excuse him though there is nothing i can Do to change
any of it now.
There are plenty of other fish in the sea, while we Are still attached
we can not see or feel that, it takes Time. I finally don't feel this tug
of war about Him going on inside of me after getting triggered.
My heart is healing. Its all slow going and i just keep working on
Myself and my healing and growing as best as I can, HUGS