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Why is it that often times, after people get married, one person in the relationship turns into a bully? I mean, they weren't like that during the dating process, right? What is it that makes someone finally feel that they have the right to be a bully spouse?
Rman, I've been wondering whats going on thats creating the question. I'm sorry if someone's putting you through the grinder.
And I was thinking about my presence on this forum. I find theres quite a bit of stuff in people's tone, or behaviour thats maybe not triggering, but tweaking me in little and not so little ways since I got here. I also know I've been a real super-cranky-pants in general mostly because of work issues so I'm not sure how much of that is leaking out on here. But as my sensitivity from the man bashing of last weekend has waned, I'm feeling less like taking off tonight. So I'm hoping my disagreeableness is tolerable around here.
I understand a good portion of that is my pendulum still swinging from my own experience. I figured out while I was still with my bully, that I cant afford to be as cooperative as I once was. Its one of the things that saved my life.