I thought you were the DIRTY ONE...

Okay! I'll take that. After all, my suspension made me a better person.

At least you learned your lesson. Just don't let it happen again...
*waves finger in bossy way*

FOCK YOU!


*come hold me and afterwards, call your parents m'kay?*

I think the mentality that you solely need to provide for your family in a marriage at least is old school thinking. It might have worked back in the day, but I think the housewives of back than and the housewives of today are very different. I think the pissing contests today are off the wall....as shown by the show itself.."Housewives of....".

As for your statement....of "Sometimes I regret ever meeting my wife....". Well all I can say is that I couldn't agree more. I personally struggle with the fact that I chose such a poor mother for my girls. For someone who would do anything for their kids to have kids with someone who would do anything for themselves first than their kids...is something I will never know how it happened.

Rman, The first time I ever borowed money from my parents, I was 38 years old. . They paid a chunk of my divorce lawyer bill. I was so ashamed. I had to do it again recently just to pay the rent. Again, I cry to think about it, because I do not know if I will ever be able to pay them back. in full. They do not have al ot of money. What they do have they have worked hard for. I will likely do for them what they do for my grandmother.
When she loaned them money in their young marriage, They paid her back eventually with a small amount every month. I beleive they still send her a payment, even though the loan is paid off.
My Ex is being uncooperative, I do not qualify for many of the programs in my county (I still make too much money- HA!) I have already borrowed from creditors. My parents ask me all the time, if I need anything. I say no until I cant say it anymore. Crap they even paid for an oil change today. I really am grateful. They have been supportive, but I still hate it.
I know how you feel. I am a grown woman who shoud be able to manage my bills, but my marriage and then the divorce crippled my finances.
((((((RMAN))))))))
Go ahead, borrow from mom and dad- eventually you will get to a place when you can give back.

nancyneds...I'm sorry if this triggered sadness. I didn't mean for that to happen.

Rman, Nancy is sharing your pain and she is encouraging you....so, listen to her or else!

Z means business...just look at her avi....

Kessie...don't tempt me...*is it Tuesday yet?*

FODDY!

Z = SEKSIE

Rman - put it this way: if your girls were in trouble and they had reservations about coming to you for help, wouldn't that make you feel bad?

It is the same with your parents. I imagine they love you very much and would not want you to have an issue coming to them if you needed their help.

Suck it up R - make the call/have the conversation. We've all been there (in one way or another).

I haven't read through all of this my friend, but why not ask both sets of parents for money? Maybe it will sink in to her how bad things are.... or sink in to them.

Good luck with whatever you choose.

RMAN
DO IT
DO IT
DO IT
TACO
DO IT
DO IT
TACO
DO IT
DO IT
TACO
DO IT

I agree with everyone who said "ask for help". We all need help for time to time and if we are not careful pride will make us suffer unnecessarily.

I wouldn't know what to do w/out my parents! They have helped me so many times in so many ways. Just think of it as if your child came and asked you, Im sure you would do it in a heartbeat. These are hard times, lots of us need help, and when we can pay it forward.