I often say the only good thing that came out of my marriage was my son......and I still say that.

I dont know what your situation is RMan but there will come a time when your wife will have to step up as well and support her side of the family too.

Marriage takes two people. So does divorce.

Swallow the pride. Don't you realize that is no longer about your pride? It's about rebuilding. It's about FIXING what is broken whether together or alone. Your children are still the primary victims of an environment that is full of anxiety, stress, lack of love...not towards them but, they know when the parents are not in a loving relationship and that is the damaging bit.

SWALLOW THE PRIDE.

You will pay them back if they accept the repayment. Wouldn't you help your son if you had a son? I know you would help your daughters if ever in the future...same goes for sons.

Peace to you my friend.

Z...quit looking at my ass...

*sorry*

I'm trying real hard to find humor in misery. It's in there, but I have to sift through all the messed up brain matter first...

I agree with Z Rman.
This is life and crap happens. It is time and this situation or the fact that you need help right now does not define "who" you are or make you less a man. Quite frankly that's stupid! Stop that!!!

Ask for the help and get on with it.
It's time...

Okay then, I'm not really sorry for looking at your ass. *blushes*

You know my stance.....
I concur with Z and Friday as well....

So LKess you STILL think I'm a jackass and wish I would get hit by a train?

yes.....
I also wish I had a million dollars....

and a genie to grant me wishes.

and I'm oddly turned on by Rman's hug to me...IS IT WRONG?

:O I knew it............ ;)

Yes.

DIRTY