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Just wondering because we are so basic in our needs and communication. Women give small hints and expect us guys to figure out what they want. Guys are far less complex and when we want something we say what we want or we just do it. We don't read into body language much and we can even communicate through grunts if necessary! LOL. Hell, when I need something I don't shop for it, I find out where it will be cheapest or the most convenient place to get it and I go in, buy it, and leave!
Communication is important in marriage. My ex claimed that she was trying to work on things for a while in the marriage and just gave up. How come I never saw her trying to work on things? How come she never came out and told me what was on her her mind?
I will freely admit that I can be a bit of a caveman. I don't get hints, don't understand subtile suggestions, and I just want to be told what is going on. I use to tell my ex all of the time just tell me what is going on, don't try and give me hints. I appreciate bluntness.
Now that I am divorced and out there looking around I am trying to learn from my mistakes in the past (I know that I have made my share of mistakes in a relationship). If I ever get into another relationship I am going to flat out tell someone to not give hints, be direct and blunt so I know what is going on and can fix or respond to the issue at hand.
Ladies, any suggestions for us cavemen?
Communication is important in marriage. My ex claimed that she was trying to work on things for a while in the marriage and just gave up. How come I never saw her trying to work on things? How come she never came out and told me what was on her her mind?
I will freely admit that I can be a bit of a caveman. I don't get hints, don't understand subtile suggestions, and I just want to be told what is going on. I use to tell my ex all of the time just tell me what is going on, don't try and give me hints. I appreciate bluntness.
Now that I am divorced and out there looking around I am trying to learn from my mistakes in the past (I know that I have made my share of mistakes in a relationship). If I ever get into another relationship I am going to flat out tell someone to not give hints, be direct and blunt so I know what is going on and can fix or respond to the issue at hand.
Ladies, any suggestions for us cavemen?
Got it ladies?
I mean, let's be frank for a minute. No matter how irritated I was about something, if my wife would have flashed me, that would have been the end of it. I swear.
I may have said too much...women will be flashing men into submission all over the world now....
Lynne
I WANNA ****!!! Sorry, just had to get that off my chest.
I am smiling now.........
Fact is I usually couldn't care less about most things... but she would insist that I was angry about something.
I think it's because she had an angry father.