Ah thats how I sign my checks. I try not to be a bitch but I can be very logical and direct . Sometimes people take this as being a bitch. I have found that with the male ego this often happens.It bothers me when dealing with people I love. Because I am not communicating with them very well which is my objective.As you know name calling is destructive and ends healthy communication.I think you and your husband should set ground rules for arguments The first one being no name calling. I used to say to my husband so what your saying is you wanted to marry a bitch in all your infinite wisdom cause you had a choice. Yeah I guess I am a bitch damn it

The use of that language is very common, in my experience. Getting some anger management training is good.

I have tried to tell him they we both don't talk to each other nicely and that we both need to think before we speak or just stop talking that way cause it's lack of respect. He tells me well in the heat of the moment he can't just say he wouldn't call me names because "it's in the heat of the moment" like it should be excused cause i made him mad or something. Or because he is mad that is just how things get said. I know we both need it at first I was just saying he needed it, but I think we both do. If I say something like well if we don't go to anger management then I guess you don't want to work on things. He says I am trying to control him and say its my way or highway and the only way it's gonna work for"me" is if he sits down and bows down like a dog and does whatever I say. Trys to twist it around that angle

I'm surprised not very often. I tend to boss customers around and make them do little tasks for me at work.

I refer to myself as a bitch...plus two of my dogs actually ARE bitches :-) If I am really upset at myself, then I become "a bitch on wheels".

Don't remember anyone in real life calling me that, but my memory pre-medicated is very dubious. Plus with the meds, even I don't think I'm really a bitch.

Wow said the word four times in as many lines. Have we all transported to the South Park episode where they count the curse words? LOL

My husband has done other horrible things to me but he has never called me a bitch to my face.
I'm not innocent. I haven't always been perfect either. I shamefully am more likely to call names like stupid or crazy. The problem is I just call something stupid or crazy when it seems that way to me.
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I get called asshole all the time I also get told to kill myself or leave

I never get called either at least not to my face.. anger management may do a lot to enrich both of your lives..xx

Oh I dont have enough fingers and toes to count just how many times that word is slung my way on some days Am I one? Yeah pretty much so and some days I have no desire to be any different

i call my gf a bitch every day i think. she is though.

One of my woman friend's nicks for me is "Bitch Goddess of the Universe." And don't you forget it. I am not the Bitch Goddess of my city, state, nation, world but of the entire universe. Anyway it sounds like a real accomplishment lol.
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PS. I am so sorry I could only buy for you Irving Howe's "World of Our Fathers. The world of Eastern European Jewish immigrants in 1st half century NYC. Unfortunately I didn't have enough money to buy you "Galaxy of Our Fathers"

this is an old post but i'll chime in....never. and I don't usually use the words to someone's face.

Actually, that is why I am here writing this right now. Hubby put White Christmas on because he said he knew I liked it. OK, he let me watch about 20 minutes of it then told me there was a good movie on but he wanted me to watch this one....Rather than pick a fight which it sounded like he wanted me to do, I came upstairs to annoy you guys. He is such an a8888ole

i am a bitch, i've got no problem admitting it. doesnt bother me at all. so if im called a bitch, i just say yep!!

meant to add that i called (and still call) my kids sperm donor a dickhead, in fact that's all i ever said to him.

once in awhile id call him an asshole. but dickhead suits him better.