I don't think Hooters is that big of a deal really.. It's just a bar/restaurant with some pretty and sexy girls working there.. It's part of the attraction to the place.. The girls are probably making great tips and a good living off of them.. Good food...
People who demean women is not okay in any respect.. I don't know what's wrong though with going out with the guys for a night and looking at a pretty girl??
I think we can all check out good looks whether it be a guy or girl

Oh yeah Richard there are slezy (and I mean truly sleazy) strip clubs nationwide and yes back before most states started to regulate their adult entertainment venues dancing was very degrading for females but alot of the big)city clubs (at least on the west coast ) have made great strides in making it a semi legit way to earn a living

Does Confucius have anything to say on this matter ?

I just watched the ' Raisins' South Park though !

as long as the women dont give them "favors" or lap dances or belly dances... i get it.. they are guys and they like pretty women, known fact.

oh i dont know... i dont know what to do. i might be settling... i could do so much better. like he likes to party with his friends and get hung over. thats great. i wish i had more friends to hang out with maybe id do the same. but i have 2 drinks tops usually, maybe its because i dont go out much.

well first i'm waiting for his text. im thinking he didnt see my text from the other day or else i would have heard back from him.

from what he said to me, he adores me, he puts me on a pedistile, and hes intimidated by me and and likes me a lot, dreams about me... so why would he ignore me now?

Because he's afraid you'll find out that he is this:

>>Bro - Definition:

2. An alpha male idiot. This is the derogatory sense of the word (common usage in the western US): white, 16-25 years old, inarticulate, belligerent, talks about nothing but chicks and beer, drives a jacked up truck thats plastered with stickers, has rich dad that owns a dealership or construction business and constantly tells this to chicks at parties, is into extreme sports that might be fun to do but are uncool to claim (wakeboarding, dirt biking, lacrosse), identifies excessively with brand names, spends a female amount of money on clothes and obsesses over his appearance to a degree that is not socially acceptable for a heterosexual male. The female equivalent of the Bro is the Bro Hoe. Bro Hoes are Bro groupies that hang around bros, many of whom are actually quite hot and are thus spared the scorn that is heaped on Bros.

My sisters new boyfriend is an idiot; the dude is a total bro.

This is SO Facebook it's tragic.

Watch ' You Have 0 Friends' . South Park


You could just ask the guy straight.
Or even tell him you've made a discussion post about him purely based on the ' like' he sent.

Good Grief

Oh Crap, it deleted the second half of my comment.

YES you can do better- your photo is stunning! You're young and have lots of options. Just because he puts you on a pedestal doesn't mean he knows how to relate to women or that he knows the real you. Someone liking an attractive person- so what else is new? Is that really worth anything that you want to keep? When I was young I had all kinds of guys hitting on me, as lots of women do. So what? If you have nothing in common and you're looking for more than casual sex, then it makes no sense to try to get blood from an idiot stone. If he's dumb, he's not likely to get smarter. Sorry. You sound intelligent and he sounds like a doofus.

I would move on and not worry about what's on his mind. And for all you know, he could treat women really badly. You have no idea. I think the 'pedestal' thing isn't necessarily a good sign; one of my most damaging relationships started out that way. That's usually the sign of someone who isn't really grounded. Then when they see your flaws, they might demean you for not living up to their fantasy- that's how it worked for me. Liking beauty means nothing.

LOL that is so funny

he's not like that, he's not even white, or rich or into any of those things.

"Bro" lol

I hate to say it Pun, but that's the culture these days.

You should factor in other things you know about this guy. Is he disrespectful of women in general?? Is he a player??

Or is he a stable person with a job and nice friends??

I think you will get your answer if you add and subtract ALL of his behaviors.

My only problem with Hooters is the whole serving food nekkid thing.

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Comments like "tits and ass" show an overall disrespect for women.

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Food and women should be respected.

I know when I call a man a dick or a prick, I don't mean it in a complimentary way.....

As long as you hate to say it....I win !!!

Well, that's a stereotype, of course. And maybe he's not like his friends- but then why is he friends with them?

You say you could do better, so why pursue it? Are you wanting his validation or attention? If you don't like HIM then you're wasting your time and energy worrying about his approval.

haha! Damn you Pun! *kicks rock and stubs toe*

I'm off to ' watch ' some porn

Wear wrist support for the carpal tunnel. TTFN!