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grenadine
grenadine
Is it acceptable for a decent man to go to Hooters with his friends to watch a football game? This guy asked me out on a date. We talked about making other plans to see each other. I haven't seen him in years. He told me he's had a crush on me since high school and lately he dreams about me. So, I thought that was sweet, I said sure. But then one day I texted him and I haven't heard from him since... that was two days ago. Maybe he never saw it. That happened before. But I saw on his facebook wall his friend posted...."Tits, ass, wings, and football with D****** and 2 others, and he 'liked' it and said Gooo pats! I was grossed out! Maybe he's not the kind of guy I want to be dating. Or maybe all guys do this and I'm just being too stuck up.

Help me out, do all men go to Hooters?
BabyShelby
BabyShelby
Hi Grenadine~~

Setting the issue of To Hooter or Not To Hooter aside, I'd be more alarmed at a guy who tells me he's been dreaming about me and we haven't even gone out. Ick!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
That was my first thought Shelby - noone sane puts anyone else on a pedistal
deleted_user
deleted_user
Nobody can spell pedistull...that's 4 shoor
KimChick
KimChick
I saw someone one time spell it like "Pedal Stool"

I honestly had to just shake my head.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't think it's alarming that someone dreams about someone- that's attraction. (But then again I'm an insane obsessor, so what do I know about normal)

Just sounds like a not-happening connection.
KimChick
KimChick
It wasn't HERE Richard, it was in an essay here at the university where I work. In a COLLEGE ESSAY!

Honest!
deleted_user
deleted_user
It's like when I see comments on You Tube and they say " Genious "
KimChick
KimChick
I cringe at the things I see people submit on their college essays! The tragic part is that we don't require essays, so they're doing themselves a disservice by even sending it!

Poor kids.
BabyShelby
BabyShelby
Just to clarify .... I do not find the "dreaming" alarming, it's the "telling" that I find alarming. Again, Ick.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Personally, I don't mind Hooters. They have some of the best chicken wings around, oh yeah, and the girls are pretty. Big deal, a lot of people go there. I think you should atleast go on one date with the guy, you will never get to know him if you don't date him. Hope you sort this out!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh, I get that Baby. Now I comprende. But since I'm sort of the loopy type to go that far, I forgive that indiscretion. Glass Houses and all.

When I was in junior high this kid called me up and said he had a dream about me. I was creeped out and yet I really wanted to know what happened in that dream! He didn't tell me (I'm guessing moisture was involved, since I was the Star and everything)

When I go to sleep, I dream about all you DSers. All. Night. Long. Yeah baby!
grenadine
grenadine
well he didnt get my text. maybe i'll give him a chance...thanks for all your help guys!
grenadine
grenadine
however i don't know how to proceed since ive been overthinking this whole situation for the past two days....
grenadine
grenadine
i have no idea... about ..the cheetahs and what not but i just thought id give him a chance.. though i find he's not much of a man... i wish he were more aggressive. like ACT LIKE YOU WANA SEE ME make plans, do something. I thought you were dreaming about me and crushing on me since high school? Now I have to initiate plans? No, i dont like that.
BabyShelby
BabyShelby
If you were one of the Babys (and you could be .... I have a 24-year-old daughter), I'd say, "Go about your business." Let Hooter Boy respond to your text. Patience, my dear. :)