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  How do you stay strong when he wants you back?

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  Last Reply: GirlinCalif 09/12/2020

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  After a 21 year mostly abusive marriage, how do you stay strong when he wants you back?  It took me a longggggg time to say enough is enough, but we have 2 children so we must co-parent and be adults.  It hasn't been easy and he thinks I'm good but actually I'm an emotional wreck and everytime I get a please come back text message it tugs but I know nothing will ever change.  So, what are some things you did to stay strong in the beginning stages of the break-up of a long term marriage?  I...

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  Am I being selfish

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  Last Reply: Goofytam1974 09/07/2020

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  Back story. I have been married for 21 years and have considered leaving since year 2.  Circumstances have kept me but mostly because I have a genuine heart.  My husband has been verbally abusive on and off our entire marriage and earlier this year I realized I had enough.  But, I have been secretly planning when I should leave and he has no idea.  I have been the main supporter throughout our marriage in every way; financially, emotionally, decision maker - literally everything has been...

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