DejectedCartridge

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  An update, I suppose. Making moves, not sure if they're the right ones.

  Posted by: DejectedCartridge

  Posted: 07/21/2021

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  We're closing on two years since the breakup that broke me. There are some ways in which I'm pretty proud of myself.  There are a few things I'm content with, and of course there are always things I'm not happy with.  I started a new job this week.  I haven't worked since I had to go on a medical leave in June 2018 for neuropathy and related complications.  That was also in the midwest, not New England.  I'm doing what I used to do, or rather, what I was supposed to do on paper. ...

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 07/21/2021

  DejectedCartridge became friends with Froggie83.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 07/21/2021

  DejectedCartridge became friends with Froggie83.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 04/04/2020

  DejectedCartridge became friends with KeepingMyHeadUp.

• Physical & Emotional Abuse
  

  Things I can let go of, and things I can't.

  Posted by: DejectedCartridge

  Last Reply: healingwarrior 05/05/2020

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  Hey all.Progress is such a hard thing to measure.  Sometimes I fell like I'm making big strides, sometimes I feel stagnant, sometimes I feel like I'm sliding backwards. I've done some things I needed to do for sure.  A few weeks ago I had a moment and, for better or worse, left my abusive ex a voicemail, said the few things I still had to say, and when I hung up I deleted her number.  I know I still have it, screenshots and whatnot, but it would take effort, and so far I haven't had any urge...

• Physical & Emotional Abuse
  

  My introduction and my story, I suppose.

  Posted by: DejectedCartridge

  Last Reply: KeepingMyHeadUp 04/04/2020

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  Hello all. I’m glad to have found a place like this.  My story isn’t nearly as severe or brave as many of yours.  I just need to tell it.A little over 18 months ago, after a long and slow decline, I had to tell my wife of 9 years (We had been together for 15, since I was 16.) that the distance between us had gotten to be too much, and that I couldn’t continue our relationship in that form.  That’s not where the story of why I’m here starts, though.I was upset and lonely after that...

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 02/20/2020

  DejectedCartridge joined the group Physical & Emotional Abuse.

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 02/20/2020

  DejectedCartridge joined the group Emotional Abuse.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 02/20/2020

  DejectedCartridge became friends with TeamDS.