April-May

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  New Friend

  Posted by: April-May

  Posted: 03/12/2019

  April-May became friends with IronWkrMom.

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  My Mom and I now

  Posted by: April-May

  Posted: 03/11/2019

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  Well I spent 6 days in the Hospital and then was moved to a rehab/nursing home to recover. My Mom visited maybe twice a week for two weeks and then we had another fight about my recovery progress. My Physical Therapy team said I was doing well my Mom said I should be home by now. I was doing all I could but I was broken physically, mentally and emotionally. I was in on condition to take care of myself. Well she lost it on me and I told her not to come back. I was in rehab for four months. Three...

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  My Mom after the accident

  Posted by: April-May

  Posted: 03/11/2019

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  The accident happened. I ended up in the Emergency room 2hours away from my mom's house. She came to see me as soon as possible. I had a left broken hip and was in a lot of pain. For three days my mom stayed at the Hospital with me. Everything hurt my body and my pride. Mom doesn't like the quiet and I hate unnecessary noise. After three days of no TV, no Music and no unnecessary noise she cracked. She started telling at me. She said that she was tired of my crying and moaning every time I...

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  Drawing Boundaries are hard...

  Posted by: April-May

  Last Reply: SimpsonsOK 08/04/2018

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  My Mom said she wanted to start over. That is something I hear a lot and yet nothing changes. This time is the last chance we need to really change or we will lose each other. So I spent time thinking and writing my boundaries down and now it is her turn to write her's down. If we can learn to live with our set boundaries we will be on a better path together. Otherwise we may need to split at the fork in the road. Here is my list of Boundaries maybe they can help you write your own. My Path to...

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  New Friend

  Posted by: April-May

  Posted: 07/15/2018

  April-May became friends with NeedAdvice2013.

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  New Friend

  Posted by: April-May

  Posted: 07/14/2018

  April-May became friends with mirandac.

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  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: April-May

  Posted: 07/14/2018

  April-May commented on the discussion Having A Hard Day.

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  Having A Hard Day

  Posted by: April-May

  Last Reply: mirandac 07/18/2018

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  This week I had a big fight with my Mom, it was really bad like when I was a child. Now I am almost 30 and have been living in a State where I had no family and could start over creating the world I want to live in. Well it is now 12 years latter and my Mom needs my help. So I move to her home on the other side of the country. After three months of living together and me trying to help her with Knee replacement recovery I am turning into a person I don't even like. Talking with a Bishop in my...

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  Joined New Group

  Posted by: April-May

  Posted: 07/14/2018

  April-May joined the group Codependency.

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  New Friend

  Posted by: April-May

  Posted: 07/14/2018

  April-May became friends with TeamDS.