RonaleeC

I have a showing on the condo today. Please pray it sells soon! The visit last night with the stbx went well (he even took a phone call from the girlfriend and I am happy for him, for real!!!) I have...

Hi DS friends, I have been really distracted by the stbx and dealing with my chilhood abuse for the first time and then dealing with my divorce and the bathroom "incident" on top of it. I can't come...

Why is there always a "power' struggle as to who has the upper hand? the money. the life. the friends. the wit. I hate how competitive it feels. I stay strong strong strong all week when I talk to...

Well, today is a good day. I like the idea of trying to think in new ways and thinking about the postive outcome of the whole divorce and what lies ahead. I will focus on my body and my work and my...

Here's my randomness:1. My favorite thing for breakfast that I call "the Ronalee Bagel" is a sesame bagel, toasted and open faced with melted muenster cheese and two slices of tomatoes on each side...

Today is a good day so far. I will appreciate each and every day for what it is and will try not to wish the summer away because I want certain things to be over already.TODAY I WILL:  BE GRATEFUL...

Today so far is going really well. YEA! I guess you have to have some REALLY REALLY bad days to truly appreciate the good ones. A girlfriend is studying "Polarity Therapy" and worked on me today for...

Today is another lonely day. I am going to try to stay focused on work and then tonight my ex is supposed to see my daughter. He is ALWAYS LATE and ALWAYS BROKE AND ALWAYS saying things to blame me...

Yesterday when I woke up I couldn't stop crying and NOTHING EVEN HAPPENED YET??!!It was just a sad day. I had to clean the condo for "a showing" and then went to my brother's house for dinner. We...

Well, today I made progress. I didn't let my ex into "my emotional space" I talked to him once on the phone and kept it short and brief and kept strong. I can't get sucked into his negative bullshit...

I have to get off this site and start working. I feel so distracted!!! I know what I have to do. I promise myself I will not get back on here until much later tonight. My ex is scheduled to pick up...

I had a productive counseling session yesterday. I know that I have to set boundaries and remain calm with my ex when he insults me and doesn't do what he says he will do.I have to also set realistic...

Please God let my condo sell soon, I really need to get out from under this mortgage and into a little house that is more affordable.

I feel so overwhelmed being a single parent. My ex is not even allowed to watch our daughter because he is such a F(*&( up. I feel so embarassed that I even married a guy like him. I want the divorce...

It's so hard to focus on work when I feel so frustrated about my ex. I want to scream.I can't afford to loose my job and this has been so distracting for the last year. Today I will try to focus on...