Widows & Widowers Support Group

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honey94 09/07/2014

Hello everyone. I've had a rough day amd I'm watching tv when Long Island medium comes on. I've never really believed in it and with how i was raised in church it was a no no. But with the passing of Brandon and i want answers that I'm not getting i wonder if i can find someone and if it is really true. But on the other hand i don't want to get into trouble with Heavenly Father. I've dreamt about him but the dreams are like we are just hanging out but he hasn't really talked to me. My daughter said she had a dream and he told her she better be a good girl. I just really want some answers that I'm not getting. What are y'all thoughts?

honey94 09/11/2014

Thank you all for your words it means so much to me!!

deleted_user 09/11/2014

I believe we are sent messages and "signs" all the time.....some we recognize, others we ignore until spirit will wait no more and the signs become more obvious!

I don't believe we see our departed ones in any specific place [heaven], I believe they are placed into another living being and live on. Hence, the feelings we get when we meet someone and we could swear that we've met them before - we have, in another lifetime!
Roz

Birch333 10/31/2014

Any new comments about experience with mediums?

Shrn 10/31/2014

I have not been to a medium and yes, I was devastated by the unanswered questions. I don't fault anyone who does choose to go to one though. I believe we all search for comfort in our own way.

I am a Christian and through my devastation I sought God with trust that He would lead me through the horrible pain that surrounded me. My understanding of my faith was the blanket that supported me while I cried for the loss of the man I loved. I read the bible and that also comforted me. I listened to a song on a CD that is also on Utube by Josh Turner called "Me and God" That song and it's message spoke to my heart in a special way.

I pray that God will hold you and comfort you through this time whatever you do. Sharon

tikibell1 10/31/2014

I rarely have dreams but like you he is there but really never speaks to me. But my daughter has dreams regularly and he also tells her to be good! She said he alwasy says Be good Lynnie as that is what only he called her. She said she always replies I am trying to be Daddy and the dream ends but she has it often! I have only watched them on TV but it is your choice to make!

Truhal 10/31/2014

The bible tells us that these things are real and to stay away from them. I believe that 99.5 percent of the mediums are phony and the other .5 percent aren't in business. A total waste of money.

Instead ask God for a message.

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