Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.

Truhal
My husband has been gone nearly 4 years. In all that time I've lived alone with just my bird, but desperately wanted a dog. I was so afraid to get one because I feared who would take care of her if something happens to me. My step-daughter has her hands full with two kids and lives in a building that does not allow dogs. My friends are in similar situations What will I do if I got sick suddenly? This doesn't happen with a bird because you can put tons of food in the cage.
So, today i put aside my fear and am adopting a shelter dog. I'm still worried about the what ifs, but feel that I must let go of my fears. I'm also going to buy one of those auto-feeders and pray, pray, pray. This is changing the way I eat. I must stay healthy.
This is yet another aspect of being a widow living alone. It stinks that something as simple as getting a dog becomes a major problem.
Anyone else dealing with this? Any tips?
So, today i put aside my fear and am adopting a shelter dog. I'm still worried about the what ifs, but feel that I must let go of my fears. I'm also going to buy one of those auto-feeders and pray, pray, pray. This is changing the way I eat. I must stay healthy.
This is yet another aspect of being a widow living alone. It stinks that something as simple as getting a dog becomes a major problem.
Anyone else dealing with this? Any tips?
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