Maybe you're looking too hard, maybe it's too early. The signs are there we just don't always see, smell or feel them. It is my belief we all have the gift, but some are more gifted. Some get signs, some get dreams and some get both. At nearly eight months I have yet to have a dream of Wayne. I think you will see a sign and you will know it when you do. It doesn't have to be a bird, an insect or any animal. It could be a flower, a cloud in the sky, a shadow from the sun any object...you will see. Love and Hugs-Jewley

Why is it that when a door suddenly opens by itself that it is contributed to a sudden gust of wind. The feeling of a touch on the hand or the back of the neck is a neural response or wishful thinking. We as humans tend to find it so hard to believe in things that cannot explained by human senses. Have you ever wondered why only the innocence associated with childhood can feel the presence on what is referred to as an invisible friend. The world that we live in was not created by human or scientific intervention The creations of the world was by divine intervention. We live on a planet suspended vast and almost endless solar system. The four seasons are perfectly timed, and the miracle of birth is undisputable. Do I believe that our loved ones are still with us? Absolutely. I believe that through death our relationships with our loved ones has been transformed to a spiritual relationship . A relationship that now takes place behind closed eyes.

Kymberly

You're not crazy - I think we all have those kinds of thoughts and wishes. For me, the early nights were filled with nightmares, so it was a huge relief when I finally had a good dream of Cliff. That took 3-4 months I think. Signs? Bunches of inexplicable stuff - like the fragrance of roses when there were none in the house or in bloom outside the house. The lights in the living room would flash off and on and the ceiling fan would come on - all this without anyone touching the switches - but usually only when me and my sons were in there together - so it was obvious that it wasn't one of us fooling around to trick the other two. Lots and lots of stuff over the years.

I hope he misses us. I think he watches over us, but probably misses some of the things we used to be able to do together, like laugh together.

I think in the early days that they have to get used to their new life, too, and that may be why it takes a while before we receive any signs. Just a possibility....

Love and Hugs,
Martha