No that doesnt sound crazy, well if it is crazy you and I will be in the same institution. I feel the same as you, I keep asking for a sign that he can hear or see me, I've had a few things happen, but others say it is just coincidence. I only have had one dream with my husband in it, usually we dont remember dreams do we, but this was so clear. The first night i was alone I felt something grab my foot in bed and I jumped out so fast , nothing was there, but the feeling was so real.Lets go on wishing to get a sign. I will keep you informed. Cheers Val

Not crazy at all. I think most all of us hope for those things. I know I do. Other than that fearless blue dragonfly in my profile pic that occasionally keeps me company out on the back porch, I haven't experienced any otherworldly signs. Capri loved dragonflys so I like to think she has a hand in it visits. I have felt her presence in a few things she left behind for me to find like the journals she kept during the last year of her life. She also surprised me with a valentines card. No idea when she bought it as she wasn't able to get out without me in those last months and she died a month before Valentines day. It took a few months for dreams to return. In 8 months I've had 5. 4 weren't the best but I leaned some things about myself from them. The 5th was the happiest dream I've had in years. I wish you similar experiences.
Peace and ((hugs))
John

Signs seem to come when least expected or when I was really having a bad day. My first sign came shortly after he died. I left for the funeral home to plan his funeral and when I got home the door to the bedroom he died in was wide open. I always kept it closed. This happened twice. Of course I checked the door jam and I tugged to see if it would open by itself....no it didn't . After that I got lots of signs. Now at 5 years the signs don't come as often but they do come. A lot of people miss them because sometimes they are so subtle or they try to explain them away. Do they miss us,,,,yes but not like us. They are waiting patiently for us. That will be a glorious reunion!!

Truthfully I believe they are gifted with insight that we dont have while we are here. They have a much better understanding of the why things happen the way they do. With that insight the missing is not necessary for them because they know the ultimate reason why. I also believe they are closer to us than we think. I have been blessed with sporadic signs that help comfort. There is no doubt in my mind he is watching over you. God bless. Gerald

Thank you all for your responses!
The dragonfly is a good sign, John.
Val, I prefer not to have my foot grabbed!

When my mom died I was devastated, I missed her so much.
I cried every day. Then one night, months later, I had a very vivid dream about her, it was so real. She was sitting on a park bench in a lovely meadow. She was young and happy and healthy.

I begged her to come back, but she smiled and said, "Oh no, I don't want to, I love it here."
That was over 20 years ago, and that was the only dream I've ever had of my mom.

So, I'm hoping that my husband is happy and healthy and enjoying heaven ... but it would be so heartwarming for me to have a sign.

Wishing you all pleasant dreams.
xo

No, we think all kinds of things, but can't get an answer.

I have received signs over the years, first one was at 2 weeks. They are few and far between anymore, but there is no doubt that he is with me every day. I feel his presence.

No doubt people are happy in heaven so I would think they don't experience bad feelings about anything. Thankfully my husband has managed to send me & my children "signs" he's fine & they are definite enough that I have no doubt that they are from him. You may have already gotten a sign from your husband & just not realized it. This may sound weird but "tell" him you need to see something, I'm sure he'll send one.

I have had several physical signs, as well. Garage door opening by itself. A string of lights changing color by themselves. And I had a dream where I heard Jeff's voice.

They are all very comforting and I hope I continue to receive them.

Not at all! Keep your eyes peeled. The sign will find you. For me it was turkeys. We - uh, I live in a very rural setting. My husband had always enjoyed being outside and fed every creature that ever wandered by. We had had huge flocks of turkeys, but 5 years or so ago, the word among the "neighbors" was that a virus had wiped them out and we hadn't seen a single one for ages. When they used to come, my husband always called me out to see them, too, because I always thought they were hysterical-looking things and he liked watching me laugh. On the morning of the viewing, I was sitting on the deck and movement caught my eye. Coming up the path out of the woods were two - just two - turkeys, walking exactly side by side together. I watched them with both joy and heartbreak banging around in my chest at the same time. Then all of a sudden, turkeys were raining down from both sides of the path as if they'd been choreographed to do so. That was my sign. I took it as his way of telling me he was free again to fly, too.

Keep looking. You will know it when you see it - and I dearly hope it happens soon for you.

I believe like Gerald. They don't miss us in the sense we miss them We miss talking to them & hugging them . They are of a different existence and don't need the physical like we do. But they are watching us. And I believe that even tho they can't hurt like we do they do feel compassion & empathy when they see us so devastated.
I waited and waited for a sign from Michael. But not until I had moved out of my fog did I see anything. Well, actually I smelled it. I was enveloped in pot smoke. Michael was a pot smoker from way back in the day. And it was never allowed in the house cuz the smell makes me gag. So one day I sit down at the computer & it was all around me ! I was sure it was him!
Since then there have been smaller signs...alot of feathers in odd places and a silk flower petal. He didn't believe in real flowers cuz they die.
Sometimes I just feel his presence. Especially on the really bad days.
I have a friend who is an Intuitive and she told me he told her he is always here, behind me. And I do feel him behind me alot, maybe laying his hands on my shoulders or just his closeness.
7 weeks isn't a long time even tho it feels like 7 yrs. Once the fog starts to lift I'm sure the signs will come
Peace to you friend,
Nancy

NO your not crazy !!!! So sorry for your loss !!!! Due to my husband's health issues he spent a lot of time in his recliner in the bedroom and would watch the birds and squirrels come to the feeders and scraps we would throw out. Bob passed away April 17,2014 and in May I looked out the door and there was a little bluebird that I had never seen before, sitting on the back steps looking at me. BLUE was Bob's favorite color and we all dressed in blue for his funeral. I quick called my son, as I felt it was a sign and took a picture. The next day it was back again flying from trees to bushes so I took a picture of it on a branch and put it on my computer . To our amazement we saw there was 2 of them. My 40 yr old son who is deaf LOOKED at me in amazement and said " It's Father and James, YES I know it is ! " James was our 3rd son who was stillborn on Sept 26,1987. Yes I do believe it was because we have not seen them again since. BUT now we all have the picture of those 2 little bluebirds looking at us from the bushes AKA HEAVEN !!!!.. your sign will come...in my thoughts and prayers

No your not crazy! I am so sorry for your loss - I lost my husband 12 weeks ago and I keep "begging" to get a sign. Any kind, one that he's at peace, one that he's watching over me. Anything. I was glad to see that I'm not the only one who hasn't gotten one. When I hear or read somebody tell about some sign - I think I want to scream! I talked to my girlfriend last week about it and she said maybe because we want one so bad - that's why were not getting one! I don't know. His friend had a dream about Rich the week after he died. I don't even dream about him - I keep wishing. Here's hoping. Hugs to you.

No you are not crazy! I am sorry for your loss!! I understand I keep
hoping for some kind of sign from my husband too. Hugs and prayers
to you!

I'm sure people get signs. I wish I'd get one. Friends tell me what everyone says "I'm sure he's with you", but I don't feel anything! Since he died I've never felt his presence around me or seen anything that really smacked of "I know that's him". He was a skeptic and not much into animals/birds/insects (other than our cats) so I don't know that seeing any of them, evren if unusual, woukd make me think it was him checking on me.

Had the occasional dream, but only or twice have I thought it might really be him. I am all time for a sign, or a visit. .. but I haven't seen anything. I miss him and wish I knew if he really was here (and why can't I tell). -Judy... feeLing alone with the cats.

For me if you believe they will send you signs you will find them. If you don't believe that it's true, you won't recognize them anyway. The signs are for our comfort to accept or disregard and it's neither right or wrong. Sharon