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Ornello
Ornello
I am just 61, but I have no interest whatsoever in dating women close to my age. I am interested only in women in the age range of 18-35. When I go out in clubs, restaurants, etc., young women occasionally approach me, so it seems to go both ways. I always overdress (Italian designer suits/jackets/tux occasionally) compared to the way that 20-something men dress. It is very flattering, but seeing that I have been celibate for 35 years, I have no clue what to do next...
deleted_user
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Well, it seems there's been some real off topic "war" in this topic but in case there are people coming here still open to discussion, I'd love to read and write, make friends. I'm from the other side, who's in a relationship with a senior :) (60+ and me 30+)
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deleted_user
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this "war" has been going on for a while. LOL I'd suggest starting a new topic from your own perspective on a new thread if you want to have a legitimate discussion.
hairymick
hairymick
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hairymick
hairymick
200!!! can I change hands now? Hell I might even get all erotic and do it left handed for a while.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Mick! you are such a rebel!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have a friend who is 57 or 58 and he has an 18 year old girl friend and they seem to be happy together. I have heard some say it is sick. I do not judge myself, everyone has to live their owe life. Would not matter what I think anyway. They will do as they like and need no ones permission since it is legal by law I guess. I wish I could find a younger girl who would want me. I never did fit with my generation when I was growing up anyway. I find with woman my age I have nothing to offer, they have their children and grand children, a house, more in life then I ever had I suppose. Older woman seem pick also to me. I suppose due to being hurt a lot by nasty men. A younger woman may not have had as many disheartening experiences due to not being old enough to have had such bad experiences yet. I feel a lot of woman my age or older seem to want to travel and I can not be a traveling partner. I seem to like today's culture better then the one I had growing up in, even though I am not thinking it is a lot better, maybe just different then what I knew and did not like.
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