Hey thanks guys I never really thought of it that way. And since she's marrying my dad it would be easy to get him to talk some sense into her. I'll give him a call and talk to him and then talk to them together when he gets here!

So sorry to hear you're hurting! Coming to terms with sexual assault is a long journey. You are never alone- no matter how dark it seems. Have you talked about how you're feeling with a pastor, therapist, or women's resource center? It's scary to reach out and telling your story is different for each person. However, it's important to build a support network. Please know how you've been treated in the past doesn't define your beauty or future. You can discuss your situation with a Focus on the Family counselor at no cost to you by calling 855-382-5433. Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers.

Hi Precious, I'm happy you are receiving love and support from your DS friends. I think a Huge part of your recovery process, Zhee hit the the nail into the coffin.....6' *uck'n Under!

***It is in best interest to change the dynamics through language in order to not make that person YOURS.***
Glad you are able to speak with your Dad, in the end, Your Decision, In Your best interest, will be yours to make...not your Mom's wants or wishes. Take care, ML

Well a lot of FUCKING good that did!!! He said "he's a victim too, is he not? Just stay away from him." How in the hell am I supposed to do that??? The first thing he does is walks up to me and wants to talk about "the good ole days" What was good about them????

You don't have to go Precious... and you don't have to live with these people... You have choices in all of this... I know sometimes you don't think that you do however you do..... None of this is in your best interest.... Big hug and a blessing.....xo

I'm so scared. The last thing I need to do is have a meltdown at the wedding. I have a guy that is going to be with me for the walk down the isle and he won't let my cousin anywhere near me. I also have a couple of second cousins and a friend that know there's a chance that he might be coming and they are going to surround me so that he has to go through them to get to me. Right after the wedding they are getting me and my kids out of there and leaving my cousin behind to scratch his head and wonder what happened. So if I can calm down and remember that I have a safety plan in the works then I'll be okay. There's a chance that he won't even show up. I just have to remember not to let this break me.