so, the dance teacher I'd been having trouble with was at the dance event I was determined to go to last night. It was kind of a renowned swing teacher in from Texas at a brewery I love. So, I wasn't going to let him stop me.

but, he wordlessly walked up to me and offered his arm for the first dance. I worked on having a better dance frame, but it was like some kind of awareness between us, like discomfort bordering into attraction. It's a group class; you move onto the next partner quickly. I never take private lessons. 

Had so much fun!! All the tensions melted away.