Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) Support Group
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Alexander429
Hey everyone,
I am under a tremendous amount of stress taking care of my 85 year old father who has been in the hospital 3 times in 5 months. He is in now and has a new diagnosis of bipolar ! They said he had probably had it his entire adult life from his history. The stress is causing me to have intrusive thoughts of traumatic events. My psychiatrist has prescribed Xanax but I need it every single day. He says don't worry about being addicted to it, I can wean you off. Anyone care to share how they handle flashbacks in your head when under stress. Are you on benzos? Thank you!
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Another thing that have been working for me lately is Emotional Freedom Tapping (EFT). It's totally silly and seems like pseudo science, but it helps me. It shifts your brain from panic to recognizing your emotional distress and having compassion towards yourself, stimulating meridian points has an effect of the mental processing. It takes the edge off, and when you are a little calmer, it is easier to process the emotions that are coming up for you.
Also, popping a pill to feel better isn't really a good solution for PTSD, you need to work through and process the trauma so that it loses the emotional charge and doesn't make you feel so over-whelmed. You say you are in therapy, so hopefully you are working through and processing the trauma. Have you tried EMDR? I recently started doing it, after hearing others say that it is effective, and I've seen positive results.
Also, self care, yoga, exercise, social interaction. Studies show that things like participating in a play where you are a powerful character is sometimes more effective than years of therapy. You have to be creative when healing emotional wounds. I fire dance and it's empowering. I feel powerful because I am able to control my bodies natural response to fear, and that's a nice thing when I've been so burdened by PTSD triggers and my inability to control my body's response to fear.
Keep a journal (and for me as detailed as I can) was how I discovered I had warnings right after being “triggered” that have eventually given me time to use the “tool box” before I need outside help. Because a lot of the time it’s just been my thirteen year old daughter & I (husband travels for job a lot), we have codes to protect both of us from the unfortunate side of PTSD. I have codes for friends & family members to let them know I’m in crisis mode that I can text or call them with.
Whether alone or with support, still distraction has helped the most to derail flashbacks, generally something nonsensical & silly as it immediately has me go “what????” and attracts my attention. And keeping a record that helps you find your triggers & warnings signs really makes sorting through the confusion of PTSD & making healing a lot easier.
I’ve also found having someone I can tell in detail about my trauma & the flashbacks helps a lot to reduce the fear & also decrease the intensity of following flashbacks (for me o has worked best therapist works best as I am less worried about the emotional pain sharing my flashbacks will cause them but recently my mom has been my go to person or my husband).
And having to take something like Xanax can help if under doctor’s direction. Having a psychiatrist & therapist really can be the best resource but as I have had a lot of issues with trust in that area, I suggest finding the right ones for you that you’re comfortable with.
Sending hugs, strength and lots of support to you, Alexander.
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