OMG I feel so bad for you. I am glad you are past the darkest spot and hope the pain does NOT return. I am so glad you had your family through this. My wishes for a quick recovery and love to your whole family.

EP

Awe, thank you for taking the time to post. I sure hope your recovery will be swift.

~Lorrie

My poor friend!! No wonder you have been on my mind like crazy. You are such a strong woman Sue... Hang in there love bug and Im sending you lots of healing energy your way!! xoxox

Oh, no...when someone goes missing you hate to think it is more than a break, or even hope that it is something good that we will hear about and smile.

I am so sorry to hear of all of this. It sounds like the worst is behind you,and that you have had good support.

My thoughts are with you, take good care of yourself, and when you area able, keep us informed...

nikki

I'm so sorry that you've had such a difficult time but I'm very glad that you've pulled through the worst of it and are on the mend. Big hugs and best wishes for a speedy recovery. -Crystal

Thank you all for your responses. I reread my post & boy did I not check it so sorry for bad spelling & gramman am sure you understand as my vision has been afifected too.
I did have some very bad times as you understand I only put the basics that I could in it
My brain is still fuzzy.

A couple of good things that have come out of it is that I am now on patches & after it took the first dew to work fully my pain levels have lowered dramatically & mainly just take panadol & panadol osteo to help so far. I cant believe the difference not being in pain all the time has made already - thats ignoring the tummy pain from surgery.

Apart from already knowing how good hubby is my Mum has finally realised how much I have been struggling health wise & actually visited me more (icu scared teh %%**) out of her. She also talked to hubby better, phoned him up & chatted & tried to understand the stress he was under. Some other friends also really came though with a lot more support - contact through text messages on mobiles. That was my only contact method.

I am glad I am through the other side of it. Prayer sure helped me & often I was just crying out to God to get me through whatever they were doing/was happening too. Lots of painful procedures etc.

Thanks for hugs & messages too, much appreciated.

So great you are getting pain relief. And it's wonderful about your family and friends giving more support. I am so happy for you. I ended up in the hospital in 2007 and it did not help convince my family and friends I needed more support. I guess because I did not end up in ICU. So, I am REALLY happy for you. It's great you have a husband who is supportive.
Hope things continue to improve for you.
Bonnie J.

So glad you have come through that ordeal! Hope the healing comes fast now. Glad you are back.

Thanks Bonnie, I am waiting to see how long Mum will stay helpful for as she has a bad track record. As for friends I am hoping that they keep in contact & do offer some support.
One who had said she was bringing over vegetable soup has already changed mind, Has put it in the freezer as is too busy with grandkids who have chicken pox! another who said she would come over today has already rang & said sorry something else has come up so she wont so to come over. Doesnt look good so far.
Glad hubby is a good support regardless though keeps referring to himmself as "my slave" which is frustrating.

I am jusst trying to take it easy as I did a couple of things this morning & abdo is sore & I am tired already. Slowly, slowly