Loneliness Support Group

Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...

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Falcon05
Falcon05

How do you get over just feeling worthless? Like you're not deserving of the blessing you get and that you don't deserve this life. I'm trying so hard to be grateful about thing but here I sit in my parking at a Walmart parking lot just crying because I feel like shit and it's the only thing I know. I'm just so tired of everything. Tired of feeling like this, tired of believing that I'm always going to be like this, and just tired of being fucking tired man. I don't know what the hell to do anymore. 

Community Leaderbobinmaine
bobinmaine
I don't know if you have any connection to a God of your understanding but when things go really bad in my own life, Prayer and meditation really helped me. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.......

God Bless
annettearizona
annettearizona
You need to find things you enjoy.life is worth living and sometimes we have to spoil ourselves until our exact other comes along.
Meanwhile explore and find things you like to do
FollowingInChrist
FollowingInChrist
Open up in prayer to the Heavenly father. Ask him who he really is and what his name is ask him to give you a sign. He will. Everyone knows that there is a God even Atheist's believe in creation. God will have you feel less lonely and perhaps bring a friend into your life. Try it there's nothing to loose in trying.
veggiequeen
veggiequeen
Hi. I think we are always harder on ourselves and can easily feel like a failure. (Add to that the fact we may be surrounded by some negative, dysfunctional people who beat us down to try to make themselves feel better. ) You are still young and have so much time ahead of you.

I will tell you, I am much older (very big frown here. lol) and have been through alot. Just recently again I was feeling like" what the hell am I here for"? But I opened up and got it off my chest, slowly felt relieved and was reminded of all the bad things that have led me to learn more from others and find more pieces to the puzzle toward a happier, healthier life. WE are still here for a reason. If we look closely, we can find gifts we are given and realize even though we don't feel worthwhile, SOMEBODY does still believe we are. (and I do as well.) Good thoughts and hugs, Kim
905sue
905sue
I feel the same way sometimes!!!
I know that we are still here for a reason, but it’s hard to see that reason most of the time!!! i’m in my 60s and retired I hardly ever get to see my kids and one is in jail. He’s not calling at all. God loves us and we have to try to be a blessing to those we do see. But you are right your feelings are real and It’s going to get better!!! Hugs and prayers
urbangardener
urbangardener
It sounds like you may have major depression and this usually takes mental health help to overcome. Start by asking for help from your doctor or local mental health authority. You do not have to suffer like this. There is no shame in feeling down but it sure doesn't feel good either and stunts our lives. I am not sure why you feel worthless but often when we are stuck in this kind of thinking, it is depression. The start of your journey to healing was writing this honest and vulnerable post. I wish you the best.
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