Yes. I totally agree with you.

Sounds like you're talking to the wrong women. Do you base your desire to talk to them on what they look like? It seems to me that most men want the good lookers, just as they want guys with money. If you go for the women with more substance you won't have that problem. Just my thoughts.

There are a lot of women,, more than guys I would say ,, who do not have any resources or money either.. the question arises ,,would you be open to corresponding or talking to them... I am basing this on the supposition that you do not or are not willing to monetarily engage with them in any meaningful way,,, ???

I don't need a 10 to be in love.

I don't chose a man on basis on money. I go for personality.

But you want a 9 1/2?

Not all women are after money, but there are some that are that way, just as there are men who go for looks only.

If you give of yourself emotionally and plan fun, inexpensive things to do on dates, I imagine that you should be able to find a nice lady.

I don't go for money at all. I'd rather someone who was generous is caring that having lots of money. I'm sure there are others who would agree.

Good luck :)

I meant "rather someone who is generous IN caring THAN having lots of money".

Tired brain = typos

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Well the plain fact is that most beautiful women won't have anyting to do with a bewlow average guy unless they guy has a good paying job and can support them. Then when then man does the woman still has to fill her sexual need somehow which is why many of them cheat. Some men, if they are extremely gorgeous (I am not one fo them) can get away with not having much in terms of assets. This is the world in which we live ladies and gentlemen it has always been that way throughout history and will continue to be that way. It's all about status sadle enough. Romance, chivalry and earning the right of beautifu womans hand no longer exists. It's about who cn supply the biggest house, prettiest car and largest bank account. I agree not all women do this but the ones that do not I would bet they would be considered just average looking. It happens though but very rarely have I ever seen the most attractive woman with an unfortunate unemployed average looking joe unless there is a reason. Just my view.

And man my spelling sucks today lol

I'm going to have to disagree with you Animal. While I am not the most attractive woman out there, I am not unattractive, yet the man I fell in love with would be considered average, average looking, he's even overweight, with an average job. Not every attractive woman is out looking for Johnny Depp or Orlando Bloom or cheating on there average lover or out simply for money, cars, houses and other material things. I would rather be with my best friend than some rich jerk who is so shallow that all he sees is an attractive, tall, blond woman.

Wow. It's one thing to be financially stable and another to be a gold digging woman /man. I do not believe it comes down to physical beauty.many who love will often carry the weight in difficult times.

I just have trouble meeting girls because my social skills suck. But I'm not a bad person. Dating is like shopping, pick through a lot of what you don't want or that's not good for you until you find the right connection!

Hi Jasper: Anyone that immediately talks about money, I think by now you realize they are not what you are interested in.

Keep in mind that some people have nothing and live off of what others have--that's not what you want in your life.

You always have to "sort" through people to find the ones that you are interested in.

I agree with you hottamale....Not all women need the looks or the money to be happy. Yes, I think in some ways we all want someone that's attractive in our eyes, but to me anyway, attractiveness comes from within. I prefer guys that make me laugh and are not afraid of communication. Everything else is not so important. Like anything, the best things in life are worth waiting for and worth taking the time to learn about. Keep looking, you will eventually find them.