Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
Today my mind is revisiting how i have always been the outsider in life.
I grew up LDS Mormon and they shunned me for asking too many questions....primarily "why". my mind was always analitical and i had a hard time with belief and still do even though i try (not a mormon anymore they didn't want me).
As a kid i was always left out of things....mostly the usual kid bs but it kept going in my adult life. Most of the time i'm the person people only come to when they have problems but past that no one wants anything to do with me.
as far as my love life it's non existant at least since my divorce in 2007. I've never had a woman flirt with me or come on to me at all in my life and it gets to me. I know i'm not that attractive (physically and mentally) but i see guys thousands of times worse than me getting hit on all the time but something about me is apparently unaproachable and i don't talk about this stuff to very many and then it's only to those i have known for a long time and trust.
i just hope i'm not alone for the rest of my life like my dad is. he never remarried or anything after my mother.
i don't know today is just a crap day for me. constant reminders of how i am nothing.
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I got an email from Kohl's that I had a 40% off coupon for today and tomorrow only. It took me about an hour but I placed an order and got some great deals. I have been wanting a new dress. I like dressing up sometimes. My birthday is coming up and I have dinner plans at a nice restaurant. But, honestly, I'm a little out of control again. I went through this in the fall. I bought...
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Has anyone else noticed that clearly speaking and doing things intentionally is liberating because it helps combat the feeling of depression and a sense of hopelessness? Let me share a little more: in my experience, when those who have tried to project a hidden agenda that is obviously not aligned with integrity and well-being, it's best to be firm and speak clearly from self-awareness and...
One day you will find the right person even with out knowing it , I did and I am happy married my wife come the right time thanks to Facebook , so if you are on Facebook you may find miss right . looks are not everything it's what inside that matters .
Good luck .
I hear you , life is a minefield for many we each have our battles and some we win and some well you know how that goes, life is harder for some and I seem to come on that scale too, a easy way or a hard way, many of the things I have been through I feel I have grown from and tried to turn them into positives but now and again I will overthink myself into a funk lol, not saying that's what you are doing, just saying we can all write but really our words never make up how we really feel and we can hear others perspectives and that helps a lot as least we know we not in the same boat alone, just distance between us all(not because of this dreadful covid19) I myself borderline lonely and on the flip side part enjoy solutide, but one day, someone will come along and enjoy that with me too, but till then I have to smile and underneath paddle like a duck frantically to some sort of normality......any ways all this is just about me lol.....all I can say to you is hello and I hear you........