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mas5707
mas5707
Deep down inside I know I want and need a girlfriend in my life. I want one to love and cherish. But, I am also afraid of the negative actions that can occur. Like her cheating on me, fighting between us, leaving each other after a long time together, or just being hurt one way or another.
Has anyone felt this way and how can I come over all this negativity.
Just for the record, I haven't had a girlfriend yet. You could say I've been waiting for the right one.
peterthegreat
peterthegreat
I think we cannot avoid of being hurt, try to learn more about relationship.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know it can seem scary to start relationships-of any sort- for those reason, But every action has it's risks which you'll have to take to experience potential benefits. I think first off you should ask yourself why you are scared a girl will cheat on you, or you'll argue? has there been any experiences in the past with family or friends, who have let you down?

To start a romantic relationship it can be helpfull to start off as friends, so trust is a big aspect of your relationship. Take things slowly and get to know each other really well.

hope this has helped some. :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know it can seem scary to start relationships-of any sort- for those reason, But every action has it's risks which you'll have to take to experience potential benefits. I think first off you should ask yourself why you are scared a girl will cheat on you, or you'll argue? has there been any experiences in the past with family or friends, who have let you down?

To start a romantic relationship it can be helpfull to start off as friends, so trust is a big aspect of your relationship. Take things slowly and get to know each other really well.

hope this has helped some. :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know it can seem scary to start relationships-of any sort- for those reason, But every action has it's risks which you'll have to take to experience potential benefits. I think first off you should ask yourself why you are scared a girl will cheat on you, or you'll argue? has there been any experiences in the past with family or friends, who have let you down?

To start a romantic relationship it can be helpfull to start off as friends, so trust is a big aspect of your relationship. Take things slowly and get to know each other really well.

hope this has helped some. :)
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