Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Tell me, why do some women not care where they see their man illicitly?
Why has she had sex with him in our unit, our boat?
How can she do that? Does she not have any self respect? Does she not think that perhaps it is still warm from where he had his wife not so long ago?
Take our boat for instance. Once I knew he had sex with her on the boat, I could never again relax while on that boat. I would not go into the cabin where said it happened and even anywhere else, it took great courage to cope with it. I could not bear to lie where she had.
Same as our unit where he has been living now. He had her over to sleep in his bed there, when she knew that it was a bed supplied by me and even slept in by me.
I would go over there and on the odd time when I gave in to his charms and had sex with him, I could not ever let it happen on his bed. Had to be somewhere else. I would not lie where she may have.
Why can the mistress' seem to have no shame? Is it simply that they are that sort of person anyway? Surely if their motives were at all honorable, they would at least demand from him their own territory? Do they simply not have any self respect?
She claims to be a 'good person' and this is the first mistake she has made in her life (2 years with my husband - a long mistake!). How can she possibly just accept him each time when he is often still warm from my touch?? It has to be a question of motives.
Appreciate any responses.
Why has she had sex with him in our unit, our boat?
How can she do that? Does she not have any self respect? Does she not think that perhaps it is still warm from where he had his wife not so long ago?
Take our boat for instance. Once I knew he had sex with her on the boat, I could never again relax while on that boat. I would not go into the cabin where said it happened and even anywhere else, it took great courage to cope with it. I could not bear to lie where she had.
Same as our unit where he has been living now. He had her over to sleep in his bed there, when she knew that it was a bed supplied by me and even slept in by me.
I would go over there and on the odd time when I gave in to his charms and had sex with him, I could not ever let it happen on his bed. Had to be somewhere else. I would not lie where she may have.
Why can the mistress' seem to have no shame? Is it simply that they are that sort of person anyway? Surely if their motives were at all honorable, they would at least demand from him their own territory? Do they simply not have any self respect?
She claims to be a 'good person' and this is the first mistake she has made in her life (2 years with my husband - a long mistake!). How can she possibly just accept him each time when he is often still warm from my touch?? It has to be a question of motives.
Appreciate any responses.
I slept around with a man who said his wife hadn't had sex with him in several years and was cheating on him so he wanted to cheat on her and in the end it all turned out to be lies he made up just to get me in bed.
She knows what she is doing, she knows him as a liar. She says she hangs around because she loves him. I am at odds to see how she can love someone who lies to her and who has not been able to leave his wife in 24 months to be with her! Has to be about the money and lifestyle. My husband cannot see that, and I think he will have to find out the hard way. Me not letting him back home will force him to go with her. Only then with time, he will see her motives.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
This slut called rolling around in the back of a friggin' car in a parking lot dating...when he confronted her with me and told her to leave him alone, what they did was wrong, she just stepped up the chase going to both his jobs, hanging around until close, even with me sitting there etc...they are trash who care nothing for anyone but themselves, and the "for rent" sign between their legs? It's there for a reason.
As for maniac...I wonder what the hell she does consider herself since the definition of mistress does imply a slut having sex with another woman's husband....
WHATEVER.....maybe we should all give her a high five and thumbs up for not having sex in the wife's house...THAT makes it all ok.
My ex said his bitch was just being herself, just being real. Really? Hows that? If she was just being herself and just being real, I suppose her and he both knew all along that she is/was and will always be a homewrecking slut?
I guess thats what he likes: sluts.
At one point, he screamed at me "I just wanted someone I could trust". Really? Yes, yes, you can always trust someone that already has a man and is fucking around with YOU. OF course!
I know that will bother my husband, and I hope it eats at the two of them.
thanks for so much input on this. It has made me really see the error in my ways over the last two years, for I have repeatedly asked her to step away and not call him etc etc and she never did, always saying she regretted her mistake - but clearly never did. It is all about insecure women having to take someone else's man as they dont have what it takes to get their own.
And they will take a man who is easy prey. That makes him not worthy of me anyway.
I know that will bother my husband, and I hope it eats at the two of them.
thanks for so much input on this. It has made me really see the error in my ways over the last two years, for I have repeatedly asked her to step away and not call him etc etc and she never did, always saying she regretted her mistake - but clearly never did. It is all about insecure women having to take someone else's man as they dont have what it takes to get their own.
And they will take a man who is easy prey. That makes him not worthy of me anyway.
Now for the real reason I am writing. Uhhh..maniac, from one (former) cheater to another. You are cheating, you are interfering with a marriage, no matter how unhappy it may be. It is never okay to sleep with a married man -- ever. Sorry, that's just the way it is.
I visit lots of discussion boards. I saw something tonight that made me automatically come to this thread to post it:
"Some people are like slinkies...they aren't really good for anything but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down a flight of stairs."
Oh to be behind one so hard headed on a steep flight of stairs like the Statue of Liberty way back when they used to let you walk up the arm to the torch!