Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
Tell me, why do some women not care where they see their man illicitly?
Why has she had sex with him in our unit, our boat?
How can she do that? Does she not have any self respect? Does she not think that perhaps it is still warm from where he had his wife not so long ago?
Take our boat for instance. Once I knew he had sex with her on the boat, I could never again relax while on that boat. I would not go into the cabin where said it happened and even anywhere else, it took great courage to cope with it. I could not bear to lie where she had.
Same as our unit where he has been living now. He had her over to sleep in his bed there, when she knew that it was a bed supplied by me and even slept in by me.
I would go over there and on the odd time when I gave in to his charms and had sex with him, I could not ever let it happen on his bed. Had to be somewhere else. I would not lie where she may have.
Why can the mistress' seem to have no shame? Is it simply that they are that sort of person anyway? Surely if their motives were at all honorable, they would at least demand from him their own territory? Do they simply not have any self respect?
She claims to be a 'good person' and this is the first mistake she has made in her life (2 years with my husband - a long mistake!). How can she possibly just accept him each time when he is often still warm from my touch?? It has to be a question of motives.
Appreciate any responses.
Why has she had sex with him in our unit, our boat?
How can she do that? Does she not have any self respect? Does she not think that perhaps it is still warm from where he had his wife not so long ago?
Take our boat for instance. Once I knew he had sex with her on the boat, I could never again relax while on that boat. I would not go into the cabin where said it happened and even anywhere else, it took great courage to cope with it. I could not bear to lie where she had.
Same as our unit where he has been living now. He had her over to sleep in his bed there, when she knew that it was a bed supplied by me and even slept in by me.
I would go over there and on the odd time when I gave in to his charms and had sex with him, I could not ever let it happen on his bed. Had to be somewhere else. I would not lie where she may have.
Why can the mistress' seem to have no shame? Is it simply that they are that sort of person anyway? Surely if their motives were at all honorable, they would at least demand from him their own territory? Do they simply not have any self respect?
She claims to be a 'good person' and this is the first mistake she has made in her life (2 years with my husband - a long mistake!). How can she possibly just accept him each time when he is often still warm from my touch?? It has to be a question of motives.
Appreciate any responses.
Even if we can't "literally" do it, it is still a pleasant thought in times of stress.
Maniac, a word of advice. Don't walk down this path anymore, it leads to a dark place for everyone involved. Have you ever asked yourself that if his wife is so horrible (and that is only if he is not making this up)why he hasn't left his shrew of a wife? Or how about this one: maybe she is so terrible, and if that is the case, she may be able to make your life just as miserable as you are making hers?
Just a thought or two.
PLEASE!! She is just exactly what she was a piece of trash willing to screw in a parking lot behind a garbage dumpster so they wouldn't get "caught", but let's not forget how "special" she was or that it was "dating"...my husband would never have even suggested that crap to me, I care more about myself than that....
I don't know where she thought I was going to go....I still wonder that since she has continued the chase, who would want someone who comes with their wife to tell you it was wrong, can't ever happen again, and leave me alone....WHY do they still chase? WHY did she drive to his day job and leave him a note on his car saying "I still love you and think we could be good together"? WHO THE HELL ARE THESE PEOPLE?
I keep asking myself this and have yet to get an answer...you know why, because we ALL know what kind of people they are, hookers who don't get paid the hourly rate....
It makes no sense why you are upset at HER for your husband sleeping around with her still. If he is still sleeping with her at this point and you know about it and have talked to the OW then don't you think you need to do something about your marriage at this point and stop worrying about WHY this OW is doing what she is doing? IF your husband is indeed giving in to her and sleeping with her still then the problem lies with him not her.
Maybe I am misreading your original post but the way you stated it you were saying your husband is sleeping with this woman even after you asked her to leave him alone. Don't you see that he is doing something wrong? No one can make him pull his pants down and have sex with them. He can say no!
I do however place blame on her, as she knows that he was torn between the two of us, and while I stood my ground and asked him to behave respectfully and did not run into his arms each time, she did. Each time I kicked him out, she ran into his arms and cuddled him. Each time she found out and he admitted to her in front of us both at times, that he had lied, she still ran into his arms and his bed. She would send him messages or call him telling him "Oh, I love you, you do what makes you happy, go with whoever you like, BUT" there was always the BUT which then went on to say that if he was with me he would not be happy. Each time something went down she would always manage to let me know every saucy detail, for example how they had the best sex of his life, just so I would get so angry with him that I would not want him back.
She used her power of maniplulation over a weak man. That is the part of her that I abhor.
I know my husband and I know him now to be weak, he has changed and even his friends agree. I dont want a weak man anyway. The same man will succumb to the next woman with just as much ease.